12 Raw Truths About Gaining Power & Respect - Robert Greene - #839

Modern Wisdom

09/16/24

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Robert Greene is an author and historian.

Robert is one of the most legendary writers in the world on human nature and today we get to go through some of my favourite lessons from him on seduction, confidence, happiness, masculinity, Machiavelli and more.

Expect to learn the biggest problems with modern philosophy, why acquiring knowledge and skill are always the most important thing, why you must protect your reputation at all costs, why you are so often your own worst enemy, which lessons from Machiavelli most people miss, advice for young men wanting to make it in the world and much more....

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Robert’s First Appearance on Modern Wisdom (02:48) The Problem With Modern Philosophy (10:21) Knowledge & Skills Are Like Gold & Silver (20:25) Why You Shouldn’t Be Cynical (24:52) Stupid People Are More Dangerous Than Evil People (30:19) The Power of Your Reputation (44:39) Your Weirdness is Your Strength (01:06:48) How to Stop Wasting Your Time (01:18:11) The Curse of Immediate Success (01:30:53) Why You Should Relish Being Attacked (01:34:57) Use Absence to Increase Respect (01:44:49) Most Important Lesson From Machiavelli (01:52:36) Advice for Young Men Who Feel Lost (02:00:26) Robert’s Forthcoming Book (02:04:54) Where to Find Robert

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Dr Paul Eastwick is a psychologist, professor, and a researcher.

What do people actually want in a partner compared to what they say they want? Paul is the lead author on largest study of its kind which was just released breaking down exactly this question.

Expect to learn the #1 trait people actually look for in a partner, how well people know what they want, what Ideal Partner Preference-Matching is, the biases that affect mate evaluation, the sex differences in stated vs. revealed preferences, whether big data could improve dating app matching and much more...

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Oliver Burkeman is a journalist, a writer for The Guardian and an author.

Does trying harder to be extra productive actually work? Does it net more success or just more misery? For the Type-A people in the world, how can we learn to be less tough on ourselves and learn to have more fun in the process?

Expect to learn what imperfectionism is, how to overcome decision paralysis & dealing with distractions better, whether or not there is an easy solution to imposter syndrome, the unexpected solution to fixing procrastination, the most effective ways to curb self-criticism, and much more...

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