Tom Bilyeu on THIS Is What it Actually Takes to Have a Happy Relationship | Women of Impact
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02/14/20
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This episode was originally published on Impact Theory's sister channel, Women of Impact, hosted by Tom's wife Lisa Bilyeu. For more content like this be sure to check out Women of Impact on YouTube or wherever you listen to podcasts.
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What does it take to make a marriage work? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu invites the person she most trusts to offer insight into that question--her husband of 17 years, Tom Bilyeu. And if nothing else, he’s certainly the only person she could reasonably ask to discuss his most embarrassing relationship stories. Over the course of the episode Tom and Lisa share their history and talk about how to build trust, why you need to keep your sex life alive forever, the extent to which you can influence your partner, and how to deal with changing roles in the relationship.
SHOW NOTES:
Why you have to choose the right person to be with in the first place [3:28]
Your personalities can be different, but your values need to be quite similar [6:08]
Tom discusses how easy it was to have differences when he wasn’t giving anything up [7:37]
“I don’t even know who I am without you.” [13:24]
To what extent can you change, manipulate or influence your partner? [14:13]
You should never weaponize your knowledge of your partner [16:57]
Lisa and Tom discuss the importance of defining words clearly [20:04]
Tom talks about defining roles in a relationship [20:58]
At first it was incredibly hard for Lisa to admit that she had outgrown being a housewife [25:04]
Tom tells the story of how Lisa’s changing role affected him [27:20]
Lisa and Tom discuss loving each phase of the relationship for what it is [32:36]
You will always find other people attractive [35:19]
Never take anything for granted, and keep your sex life alive forever [37:33]
“Don’t make me feel bad for asking, and I won’t make you feel bad for saying no.” [41:48]
Tom shares the story of how he and Lisa learned to not test each other or drop hints [43:02]
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Previous Episode
On this episode of Health Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Mark Hyman explains the rationale behind functional medicine and describes its most important features. He also gives detailed advice on improving the diet, talks about what it means to say that food is information, and discusses the connection between the body, mind, gut and brain. Get a copy of Mark's new book "Food Fix" here: https://amzn.to/38mWyY8
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SHOW NOTES:
What does it mean to say the body is an ecosystem? [1:41]
How do you find the root cause of an illness? [3:18]
Functional medicine is about creating health, not curing illness [6:08]
How should you deal with bacterial overgrowth in the upper gut? [10:05]
Mark explains how to test your microbiome [11:33]
There is lots of conflicting information on nutrition but there are some common principles [14:40]
Factory vegetarian diets harm the environment, but regenerative meat diets help [19:17]
Why should we eat more vegetables? [21:30]
What are the laws of biology regarding diet and nutrition? [23:19]
Soy traditionally was processed in a very different way than it is now [26:30]
All food is information [28:00]
Mark describes the dietary principles nearly everyone should follow [29:17]
Which kinds of vegetables should you be eating? [34:12]
Mark explains the effects of eliminating the most toxic foods from a diet [35:56]
We have the most inflammatory diet in history, and it directly causes illness [38:17]
Mark shares his journey towards Buddhism, wisdom and compassion [41:10]
Your brain, mind, body and gut are all connected [43:26]
Mark shares the one change people need to make [48:11]
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If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
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This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
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- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes
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On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Chamillionaire explains exactly how he succeeded in hip hop, speaks passionately about the importance of forming and nurturing relationships, and even talks about how to overcome the primary roadblocks that stop most people from achieving their dreams.
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SHOW NOTES:
Chamillionaire credits his perceptiveness for much of his success [3:08]
People don’t like to get advice, even when they need to hear it, because they feel judged [4:20]
The number one thing that stops people from being successful is fear [8:16]
Chamillionaire shares the story of his neighbor being murdered [12:57]
You have to be brutally honest with yourself to change your life [17:18]
Chamillionaire explains how he succeeded at hip hop [19:45]
Chamillionaire describes having one foot in the streets and one in venture capital [25:37]
Chamillionaire talks about the importance of relationships as opposed to money [26:49]
Chamillionaire explains how he becomes as efficient as possible [31:46]
Chamillionaire describes his attraction to the letter “C” [34:09]
You won’t succeed as an individual, you’ll need a team [37:00]
Chamillionaire shares the impact he wants to have on the world [39:09]
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Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?
If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes
Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz
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