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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory - How to Uncover What's Actually Holding You Back | Gary John Bishop on Impact Theory
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How to Uncover What's Actually Holding You Back | Gary John Bishop on Impact Theory

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

12/15/20

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On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by New York Times Bestselling Author, speaker, and urban philosopher Gary Bishop to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to finally wake up to the reality you’ve fabricated for yourself, break the chains of your perspective which can hold you back, and start to walk on a path towards the person, life, and reality you want to live. They discuss how we each create our own reality from our experiences, how to become self-aware so that you can recognize patterns in your life, why we create false narratives for ourselves, how to become reborn and renewed into a new person, why you shouldn’t require others to change for you, and how to deal with the challenging fundamentals of life such as success, grief, and love.

SHOW NOTES:

Reality | Gary reveals how we create our own reality and experiences. [0:18]

Self-Awareness | Gary shares how to be truly aware of and connected to yourself. [2:55]

Realizations | Gary shares his own story and journey to becoming self-aware. [5:33]

Narrative | Gary reveals how to break away from the narrative you built for yourself. [9:09]

Reborn | Gary reveals how to be in control and re-craft your perspective. [12:10]

Renew | Gary shares an incredible story of renewing his relationship with his mother. [16:47]

Change | Gary reveals why you have to live without requiring others to change. [23:01]

Creation | Gary discusses why who you are isn’t just an accident, it’s a creation. [25:10]

Self-Help | Gary shares his journey of writing in a way that actually helps others. [28:43]

Pursuit | Gary peels back the curtain on how our life’s experiences [35:06]

Fundamentals | Gary reveals the fundamentals of life that we get lost and trapped in. [39:04]

Success | Gary reveals how the false idea of success is fed to us our whole lives. [42:00]

Love | Gary reveals how the only type of real love is unconditional love. [44:41]

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Previous Episode

On this episode of Conversations with Tom, Tom is joined by Evolutionary Biologist Heather Heying to discuss such matters and more as they explore today’s society and the undeniable biological differences between men and women, how each sex has a unique and powerful role in societies, and why in today’s modern age, culture wars has eroded trust in objective truth. They discuss today’s social movements and the harmful consequences of letting them go too far, the differences between men and women in society, how hunter-gatherer societies may be key to understanding our roles, the origin of men and women being divided in society by role and purpose, the dangers we face if we continue to deny our differences, why the culture war movements are power hungry, how to have a successful workplace environment and team, and the risks we face as a society if we overprotect our children and refuse to let them take risks and make their own decisions.

SHOW NOTES:

Controversy | Heather reveals why talking about the sexes is now a hot button issue. [0:18]

Better? | Heather discusses if it’s really better to be a male in today’s modern society. [4:55]

Hierarchy | Heather discusses the social hierarchy of males and females. [9:20]

Hunter-Gatherer | Heather reveals what males and females inherently gravitate towards in a hunter-gatherer society. [19:53]

Gendered | Heather reveals why cultures divide and label roles as being male or female. [27:18]

Useful | Heather discusses the productive friction between how the sexes work together. [37:41]1]

Erode | Heather reveals the tools used today to erode the power of others with society. [52:52]

Teams | Heather and Tom discuss team dynamics, gender roles, and why all that matters is being able to get it done. [58:08]

Choices | Heather discusses if certain traits, choices, or passions are actually ‘better.’ [1:07:09]

Fulfillment | Heather shares the fulfillment she feels from presenting challenging and intellectual discussions with diverse groups of people from all walks of life. [1:09:55]]

Risks | Heather reveals the rules she has for her kids so they take on risks. [1:23:58]

Getting Better | Heather reveals why you must expose your ideas to feedback. [1:35:20]

Seeking Truth | Heather discusses the fragile echo-chamber of modern day science and academics. [1:41:43]

Power Hungry | Heather discusses how today’s culture wars are simply just a matter of power grabbing. [1:53:50]

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Next Episode

On this episode of Health Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by seven influential speakers to share their seven key tips to getting high-quality sleep for a better life. They discuss why you should seek sunlight during the day, how working out in the morning leads to better sleep at night, how to be conscious of making sleep a priority, why you have to stop eating hours before bedtime, how to eliminate stress in your life for better sleep, how different types of light influence your sleep, and why you should consider cannabis for improving the quality of your sleep.

SHOW NOTES:

Intro | Tom opens today’s episode about getting the quality sleep you deserve. [0:05]

Tip #1 | Why you need to be getting as much sunlight as you can. [0:29]

Tip #2 | Why you should be working out in the morning. [2:55]

Tip #3 | Why you need to be conscious of making sleep a priority in your life. [6:43]

Tip #4 | Why you need to stop eating early to protect your sleep. [13:13]

Tip #5 | Why you need to start prioritizing habits that eliminate your stress. [15:56]

Tip #6 | Why you need to be aware of the influence of light on your sleep. [21:45]

Tip #7 | Why you should consider the power of cannabis for improving sleep. [24:27]

Closing | Tom wraps up today’s episode on seven key tips for incredible sleep. [26:58]

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