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04/02/20
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On this episode of Conversations with Tom, Jim Kwik and Tom Bilyeu discuss the power of the mind, the true formula for motivation, and the methods anyone can apply to improve and grow. They also delve into a wonderful conversation of their favorite comic book characters, explain why video games can be so helpful, and discuss why you should determine what your dominant question is. Check out LimitlessBook.com! Here you will receive the special preorder bonuses - A 10 day reading/memory program you get instant free access to AND a 4 week followup Limitless Book club where Jim will show you how to read, remember and apply everything in the book.
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SHOW NOTES:
Tom talks about what power is and how powerful concepts can become trite [1:33]
Jim and Tom discuss it’s better to think of everything as practice and not performance [4:52]
Tom explains his methods of staying calm during video games and why he does it [8:53]
How do you instigate flow? How do you trigger it? [11:42]
Jim shares the story of how he heard the message of responsibility [16:01]
Being able to look nakedly at your inadequacies without feeling bad about yourself [20:29]
Tom discusses luck by sharing the story of how he met Lisa [24:27]
Are there things you want to get better at but you’re just not willing to put in the work? [31:37]
Tom brings up the fact that the world pushup record seems impossible even to him [33:15]
How do you stay energized and enthusiastic over decades? [44:40]
Jim explains his 3-part formula for motivation [49:30]
Jim talks about the necessity of energy and small, simple steps along with purpose [53:25]
Mindset is the set of attitudes and assumptions we have [1:00:49]
Jim and Tom discuss Bruce Lee and what they learned from him [1:08:20]
You’ll lose your drive if you’re fueled by other people’s expectations [1:14:54]
Jim discusses his mixed feelings towards professional fighting [1:22:26]
Predators don’t follow the same conventions that everyone else does [1:27:40]
The only people who will make an impact are those that intelligently break the rules [1:34:45]
We can attach to fictional characters as a template to make change [1:40:42]
What is your dominant question? [1:46:30]
The power of our questions determine our focus [1:55:29]
Jim issues a challenge to listeners [2:03:44]
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Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?
If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
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- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups...
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On this special Impact Theory clips show with Tom Bilyeu, those three guests, along with Joe Dispenza, Dr. Shefali, Robert Greene, Colin O’Brady and Molly Bloom describe the science, the experience, and the power of meditation. Find out exactly how meditation affects you biologically, how to instantly go into a meditative state, and why meditation has led so many extraordinary people to liberation, fearlessness, and success.
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SHOW NOTES:
Joe Dispenza explains how meditation affects you on a biological level [1:52]
Dr. Shefali explains how meditation leads to the liberation of the self [4:55]
Dr. Shefali’s meditation is the most basic type, just following your breath [7:01]
Robert Greene talks about how he uses meditation to reset his mind every day [7:40]
Vishen Lakhiani explains that meditation helps you bend reality [10:13]
Surrendering and going within allows you to tap into your deep intuition [11:48]
Colin O’Brady describes the ups and downs of learning to meditate [13:19]
Molly Bloom pursued a crisis mindset (liberated and fearless) without being in a crisis [16:46]
Tim Storey explains how to instantly go into a state of meditation [19:02]
Meditation is to set your mind, so focus on a mindset of gratitude [20:36]
Ray Dalio credits meditation and overcoming his ego for his success [21:50]
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Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?
If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes
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On this episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu and her husband Tom Bilyeu discuss the tactics, strategies and rules of engagement they have used to keep their relationship strong and growing for 19 years and counting. They discuss how to avoid letting the small things frustrate you, how to lift each other up, and how to hopefully find a way to make this surprise quarantine fun and empowering.
SHOW NOTES:
How do you avoid getting annoyed with each other over small things? [3:39]
How to view everything that happens as practice, and then make it fun [5:50]
Don’t tell me I’ve done something wrong after I’ve done it [9:06]
Why you have to take responsibility for yourself instead of matching negative energy [10:23]
It’s OK to match your partner’s righteous indignation, but not their anxiety [12:42]
Do not tell someone they are being irrational. Wait for emotional sobriety [16:31]
How do you make space for yourself in a situation that seems impossible? [17:37]
How do you deal with a partner who isn’t willing to do the work in a relationship? [21:26]
Lisa talks about writing her “quarantine script” in real time [23:38]
What would need to be true for this experience to be positive? [25:08]
Why you shouldn’t let “dust settle” [27:06]
You have to know exactly why things are bothering you [28:38]
How to talk to someone who is agitated without getting them even more angry [31:55]
What is one thing couples can do right now to get stronger? [34:35]
Why you absolutely must take selfish time [37:13]
Tom and Lisa used to do relationship theory, which you can still find on YouTube [39:21]
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FOLLOW TOM: WEBSITE: impacttheory.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/33XrFYV FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2xDM4Xa TWITTER: https://bit.ly/39slhdy
Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?
If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes
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