Balancing Self Care and Success | Tom Bilyeu AMA

David Goggins has earned himself the reputation of “toughest man alive” and it’s a reputation well deserved. He is the former world record holder for the most pull-ups done in 24 hours. He once ran 205 miles in 39 hours without stopping. And he’s completed more than 60 ultra-endurance events in his career. He started all this after telling himself that he was the weakest man alive. Impact Theory is proudly sponsored by: Skillshare. Start learning on Skillshare today at skillshare.com/impact Fundrise: Get your first 3 months of fees waived by going to fundrise.com/impact Blinkist. Visit www.blinkist.com/IMPACT to try out the premium service completely free for 7 days! ButcherBox. Use the discount code: “IMPACT” at butcherbox.com to get 20$ off and FREE BACON SHOWNOTES How Goggins armor plated his mind and why he titled his book “Can’t Hurt Me” [3:23] Emotional beings are living at about 40% of their ability - survival mechanism that protects you from pain and suffering [4:20] Why your mind has a tactical advantage over you (pushes you towards comfort) [5:10] Where Goggins’ 40% rule kicks in [6:50] Why you have to face the real you if you want to change and how Goggins uses an accountability mirror to gut-check himself [8:08] Why you need to tell people the truth about who you are if you ever want to change [18:43] How Goggins stopped feeling sorry for himself [19:47] Why people don’t start the journey of becoming who they’re capable of becoming (Hint: most people are content to pose as someone else) [24:41] The super-hardcore way Goggins deals with a learning disability (you can apply this philosophy to literally anything and you’ll wind up more successful than you ever dreamed) [23:54] Why Goggins says everybody is searching for the easy way out and how to make sure you’re not like that [26:14] Tom’s drug of choice (Goggins likes it too) [32:10] How to find your passion in what Goggins calls “the bag of f*ck” and use your insecurities to transform yourself [36:50] How Goggins measures the success of his life [38:16] Why you have to dive into a sack of sh*t to find more about yourself [40:18] This is the most important conversation you’ll ever have in your life [41:37] The impact Goggins wants to have in the world. [47:29] QUOTES: “When you care more about how someone’s judging you - you’re gonna stay right there. There’s no forward momentum.” [23:08] “You gain knowledge through suffering. And on the other end of suffering is a world that very few have ever seen - it’s a beautiful world because that’s where you find yourself.” [28:16] “Mediocrity is contagious.” [29:18] “I viewed myself as the weakest person on the planet earth - my goal in life was to in my mind believe I’m the hardest man alive.” [35:00] “Life is one big head game and once you learn how to play the motherfucking head game, it’s not a game anymore at all. You can start living your life.” [48:06]

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices