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E28. COLLABRADABRA - Magical Psychology of Collaborative Conversations

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01/11/23

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Collabradabra- Magical Psychology of Collaborative Conversations

(Special Guest & Communication Magician: Peter Anthony)

Do you STRUGGLE to connect with customers, coworkers, friends and family members? Is communication

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IN THIS EPISODE . . . Join Collabradabra Magician PETER ANTHONY, Doc Heath, & The TBAL Team to discover the deep MAGIC of meaningful communication.

Go to https://TherapyBites.myshopify.com & grab some PETER ANTHONY “Collabradabra” GUEST MERCH, specially designed to help keep this episode’s message “top of mind” in your life! Don’t forget friends & family members who could use a mental boost too.

TODAY'S SPECIAL GUEST: Peter Anthony is an author, speaker & Master in Professional Communication. As an expert in collaboration, Peter has run workshops for thousands, across 12 countries, over 20 years. He consults to Fortune 500 companies to help them achieve better, smarter outcomes from more effective internal & external relationships. His book “Collabradabra” highlights the six moments that matter to maximize collaborative outcomes one conversation at a time.

TOP TAKEAWAYS:

  1. Everyone is selling SOMETHING . . . in business and personal relationships
  2. Focus on SERVICE over and above SALES
  3. Neuroscience of Face-based communication
  4. Mindfully considering our own THOUGHTS & MOTIVES
  5. Seeking to understand BEFORE being understood
  6. COLLABRADABRA SECRETS:
  • Collaborative Intention is Essential
  • Mindset of Optimism Matters
  • Engagement with Authenticity

SPECIAL SEGMENTS IN TODAY’S SHOW

***Let’s Get Ready to REASON...with Doc Heath on a Social Media SMACKDOWN vs the Instagram account “MH Advocates” posting pseudo-psychological nonsense on “gas-lighting” anti-free speech, walk on eggshells wackiness.

***A.R.T. LAB Library CouchCrumbs Quote on engineering our thoughts.

“When you have a hard time SHUTTING someone up; try LISTENING to them INSTEAD.” - Doc Heath

MORE INFO from PETER ANTHONY, go to:

https://www.amazon.com.au/Collabradabra-Peter-J-Anthony/dp/064681074X

Peter’s book explains the “Collabradabra” process step-by-step.

NEXT EPISODE - “Power of Love: Psychology of SURVIVING & THRIVING"” with Special Guest & Survival Superhero KIM SORRELLE

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Full show notes & transcript at https://therapybites.podbean.com/e/collabradabra

Want to Dig Deeper into Today’s Topic?

Falk, E.B., & Scholz, C. (2018). Persuasion, Influence, and Value: Perspectives from Communication and Social Neuroscience. Annual Review of Psychology, 69, 329–356.

Schore, A. N. (2019). Right brain psychotherapy (Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology). WW Norton & Company.

Tavakoly Sany, S., Behzhad, F., Ferns, G. et al. Communication skills training for physicians improves health literacy and medical outcomes among patients with hypertension: a randomized controlled trial. BMC Health Serv Res 20, 60 (2020). https://doi.org/10.1186/s12913-020-4901-8

FOR OUR READERS . . . GOBBLE UP THE WHOLE THING!!! (Transcript): https://docs.google.com/document/d/1u-eJVDEXRQyHH7UsC_qVaIWHw5pmPh2WKPmeTVdio9Y/edit?usp=sharing

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Understanding Uncertainty: Psychology of Change

(Special Guest & Change Champion: KEVIN CAHILL)

How are YOU coping with CHAOS in a world of CHANGE? Developing resilience in a world of conflict is a key survival secret for successfully navigating change. Today's guest, a change management specialist & award-winning sales professional, shares his "5-Step Blueprint" for achieving RENEWED confidence & LIFE-CHANGING results!

AUDIENCE: Are you, or someone you know, a MASTER CATASTROPHIZER? Stop WASTING your hurts! Join us in the A.R.T. LAB today & learn to use the POWER of CHANGE & PAIN to improve your life, relationships, & FUTURE!

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IN THIS EPISODE . . . Join Doc Heath, & The TBAL Team for a deep, spelunking journey into the depths of change and the psychological spotlights you can develop to help see your way through.

Go to https://TherapyBites.myshopify.com & grab some KEVIN CAHILL “Change Champion” GUEST MERCH, specially designed to help keep this episode’s message “top of mind” in YOUR life! Don’t forget friends & family members who could use a mental boost too.

TODAY'S SPECIAL GUEST: “Change Management Specialist”, KEVIN T. CAHILL is in the A.R.T. LAB today!!! He empowers individuals & organizations to embrace change. He is an international best selling author & motivational speaker having worked his way to the top 1% of financial planners by qualifying for the Million Dollar Roundtable.

TOP TAKEAWAYS:

1. Four Stages of Change

2. The Difficulty-Deletion Culture

3. Change-Resistant Pathology

4. Self-Limiting Labeling

5. Leveraging the Pain of Change

6. Developing Change Resilience

7. Spirituality of Surrender

SPECIAL SEGMENTS IN TODAY’S SHOW

***Blue-lights & Blankets - “FRESH from the Therapy Couch” with Doc Heath on Brain-Friendly Sleep Habits

***Distorted Diagnoses - “TherapyBites PsychSecrets” with Doc Heath on Over-Diagnosis & Catastrophizing Human Experience

“Catastrophizing human experiences with diagnoses eventually makes all of human life a catastrophe” - Doc Heath

MORE INFO from KEVIN CAHILL, go to: http://kevintcahill.com/keynote-speaker/ Free access to a results-driven virtual program to start your journey to freedom & a future with no limits.

NEXT EPISODE - “Collabradabra: Magical Psychology of Collaborative Conversations” with Special Guest & Communication Magician PETER ANTHONY.

Visit the TBAL Team Page: TherapyBites A.R.T. LAB

Full show notes & transcript at https://therapybites.podbean.com/e/uncertainty

Want to Dig Deeper into Today’s Topic?

Stern Y, Barnes CA, Grady C, Jones RN, Raz N. Brain reserve, cognitive reserve, compensation, and maintenance: operationalization, validity, and mechanisms of cognitive resilience. Neurobiol Aging. 2019 Nov;83:124-129. doi: 10.1016/j.neurobiolaging.2019.03.022. PMID: 31732015; PMCID: PMC6859943.

Tabibnia, G., & Radecki, D. (2018). Resilience training that can change the brain. Consulting Psychology Journal: Practice and Research, 70(1), 59–88. https://doi.org/10.1037/cpb0000110

Turner, M. J. (2016). Rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT), irrational and rational beliefs, and the mental health of athletes. Frontiers in Psychology, 7, Article 1423. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2016.01423

FOR OUR READERS . . . GOBBLE UP THE WHOLE THING!!! (Transcript): https://docs.google.com/document/d/...

The Power of Love: Psychology of Surviving & Thriving

(Special Guest & Trauma Hero: KIM SORRELLE)

Today’s guest is a cancer-surviving, entertaining widow and an expert on love. She dishes up inspiration with a side of humor and life-application for dessert. Join us & learn the 4-letter word that will ROCK your world & HEAL your life.

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Show Your TBAL Team spirit & Buy Us A Cup of Coffee, which helps FUEL purchases of HIGH OCTANE equipment & resources that get POURED back into PERCOLATING highly CAFFEINATED CONTENT for YOU! Just click https://www.buymeacoffee.com/g6rLIt6PXu

IN THIS EPISODE . . . Join KIM SORRELLE, Doc Heath, & The TBAL Team on a journey through the eyes of a TRAUMA HERO who found inspiration, healing, and humor along the way and on the other side of tragedy.

Go to https://TherapyBites.myshopify.com & grab some KIM SORRELLE GUEST MERCH, specially designed to help keep this episode’s message “TOP of MIND” in your life! Don’t forget friends & family members who could use a mental boost too.

TODAY'S SPECIAL GUEST is the director of a humanitarian organization, popular speaker, & the author of two books. Her 1st book, “Cry Until You Laugh”, is about her & her husband's battle with cancer after being diagnosed just 4-months apart. Her 2nd book, “Love Is”, chronicles her year long quest to figure out the TRUE meaning of LOVE during a sometimes funny, sometimes scary, always enlightening journey that led to life-changing discoveries found mostly on the streets of Haiti.

TOP TAKEAWAYS:

  1. Tragedy is often BURSTING with MEANING
  2. Healing from TRAGEDY is found in SERVICE to others
  3. “Wallowing” is the OPPOSITE of HEALING
  4. Behavioral Activation versus Behavioral DE-activation
  5. Theology of LOVE & “The LOVE Chapter”
  6. Love is NOT a transactional ROI equation
  7. GENUINE LOVE is a “ONE-WAY Sacrifice”

SPECIAL SEGMENTS IN TODAY’S SHOW

***A.R.T. LAB Creature Feature on a fishing expedition for slippery “Grey Herrings”

***Doc Heath’s PsychSecrets on the Bubbling Influence of Trauma

“The ABSENCE of depression requires the PRESENCE of behavioral activation.” - Doc Heath

MORE INFO from KIM SORRELLE and a FREE book, go to:

https://www.kimsorrelle.com/copy-of-love-challenge

WEBSITE: https://www.kimsorrelle.com

NEXT EPISODE - “KILLER STORIES: Psychology of Psychopaths” with Special Guest, Television Writer, & MASTER of MURDER MATT WITTEN.

Visit the TBAL Team Page: TherapyBites A.R.T. LAB

Full show notes & transcript at https://therapybites.podbean.com/e/poweroflove

Want to Dig Deeper into Today’s Topic?

Meszaros, J. T. (2021). Sacrifice and the Self. Love as Common Ground: Essays on Love in Religion, 215.

Thomas, J. L. (2019). Is the desire for a meaningful life a selfless desire?. Human Affairs, 29(4), 445-452.

van Ackeren, M., & Archer, A. (2020). Introduction: Self-Sacrifice and Moral Philosophy. In Sacrifice and Moral Philosophy (pp. 1-7). Routledge.

Wegemer, C. M. (2020). Selflessness, depression, and neuroticism: An interactionist perspective on the effects of self-transcendence, perspective-taking, and materialism. Frontiers in psychology, 11, 2556.

FOR OUR READERS . . . GOBBLE UP THE WHOLE THING!!! (Transcript): https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Dm_bU77KlJBs8zxEdj540V-gzNOb1ufkBhE2-GI7kQI/edit?usp=sharing

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