Will Non-Monogamy Fix The Dating Market? - Justin Mogilski - #699

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10/28/23

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Justin Mogilski is an an evolutionary psychologist at the University of South Carolina whose research focuses on consensual non-monogamous relationships.

It’s often said that choosing the right life partner is the most important decision you can make. So if you're not sure, why not just choose two? Or more? And how do the people in these relationships make it work?

Expect to learn whether non-monogamy is more likely to end in failure than typical relationships, what sorts of people are most likely to be non-monogamous, why the public so heavily condemns you dating multiple people, how you can better manage sexual jealousy, what the best predictors of relationship satisfaction are and much more...

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Increase of Consensual Non-Monogamy (08:33) The Huge Role of Jealousy in Non-Monogamy (13:05) Personality Profiles of Non-Monogamous People (16:59) Most Common Non-Monogamy Practices (27:01) Importance of Exclusivity Agreements (29:37) Disclose Attraction Instead of Hiding It (35:31) Regulating Sexual Jealousy (45:41) Sharing New Partner With Current Partner (51:34) Non-Monogamy’s Branding Problem (1:05:23) Is Ancestral Polygamy a Myth? (1:15:40) Where to Find Justin

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Did The Sexual Revolution Actually Benefit Women? - Mary Eberstadt - #698

October 26, 2023

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Mary Eberstadt is a senior fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center and an author.

We're told that more freedom is a good thing. That the more options and choices a person has, the better their life will be. With this in mind, the sexual revolution should have been one of the biggest improvements ever for women and their quality of life, but all might not be quite as rosy as it seems.

Expect to learn who really benefitted from the sexual revolution, how the introduction of the pill increased the number of single mothers, where Mary thinks the newfound psychological fragility of young people is coming from, whether inventing hormonal birth control reduced or increased the number of abortions, why so many people are checking out of dating and much more...

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The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700

October 30, 2023

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Dr Andrew Huberman is a neuroscientist, Associate Professor at the Stanford University School of Medicine and a podcaster.

It has never been so easy and also so difficult to remain healthy and perform at your best. The right tools and insights we all need to avoid pitfalls and maximise our outcomes are thankfully at our finger tips, and today we get to go through some of Dr Huberman's favourites.

Expect to learn how breathing can change the shape of your face, what Andrew thinks of the “Huberman Husbands” kink, just how bad vaping actually is for you, how to increase your willpower using science, what everyone misunderstands about stress, his opinion on Tom Segura’s transformation, how to be more productive and much more...⁣

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