Why Is No One Having Sex? - Alex DatePsych - #593

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02/23/23

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90m

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Alex DatePsych is a Neuroscience and Behavioural Science researcher whose work focuses on attractiveness and dating.

We are in a new age of sexlessness. It could be that right now, the human race is having less sex than ever before. Given the rise of dating apps, the sexual revolution and hormonal birth control, how is this happening?

Expect to learn what the science says about whether girls find it creepy to be approached, whether dating is harder for young men now than in the past, why women's sexual desire declines at twice the rate of mens' in marriages, why there is a PUA to Incel Pipeline, if it's true that women's standards have risen over the last few decades, whether inceldom is all about looks and much more...

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro (01:31) How to Approach Women Without Feeling Creepy (16:19) What is Causing the Rise in Sexless Men? (22:32) The Rising Standards of Women (27:34) Does Being Single for a Long Time Impact Happiness? (31:42) What It’s Like to Be in the Top 20% of Men on Dating Apps (36:40) Are Attractive Women Having More or Less Sex? (46:44) What Guys Get Wrong About What Women Find Attractive (58:12) The Origins of Inceldom (1:08:09) Do Men Really Want to Cheat? (1:16:03) Decline in Sexual Desire over Length of Relationship (1:23:42) Why People Accuse Alex of Pro-Feminist Dating Views (1:29:42) Where to Find Alex

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February 20, 2023

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Richard Shotton is a behavioural scientist, Founder of Astroten and an author.

This might not be news to you, but the human brain isn't designed to be rational. There are cheat codes to get the brain to believe strange things, do strange things and change in ways you might not anticipate. Richard has one of the best insights into this world of mental models, psychology, consumer behaviour, principles for advertising and social change.

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