Why Is Everyone Choosing To Stay Single? - Alex DatePsych - #701

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11/02/23

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Alexander DatePsych is a Neuroscience and Behavioural Science researcher whose work focuses on attractiveness and dating.

The modern dating world is a difficult universe to navigate, which has led a lot of people to check out of it completely. But does this make people happier to elect loneliness rather than risk heartbreak?

Expect to learn why 50% of men have not approached a woman in the last year, the biggest struggles everyone faces when dating, what misconceptions the world has when it comes to dating apps, whether women actually prefer dad bods, why women initiate more divorces, why the normal guy is actually more likely to get the girl and much more...

Timestamps:

(00:00) Why Have Men Stopped Approaching Women? (04:10) Do Men Need to Be So Risk-Averse? (09:37) Takeaways From Alex’s Survey on Dating Struggles (15:26) Trying to Correct the Ideology of Incels (19:11) Why Competence is Sexy (25:01) What People Misunderstood About Online Dating (34:45) Women’s Preferences For Dad-Bods (44:50) The Gap in Libido Between Sexes (48:43) Is It Important to Ask About Body Count? (51:30) Sexual Double Standards Between Sexes (55:54) What the Red Pill is Doing to Marriage (1:11:00) Why the Normie Gets the Girl (1:20:39) Do Women Prefer Short-Term Partners? (1:31:22) Why Age Gaps Are Taboo (1:38:40) What’s Next for Alex (1:39:45) Where to Find Alex

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The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700

October 30, 2023

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184m

Dr Andrew Huberman is a neuroscientist, Associate Professor at the Stanford University School of Medicine and a podcaster.

It has never been so easy and also so difficult to remain healthy and perform at your best. The right tools and insights we all need to avoid pitfalls and maximise our outcomes are thankfully at our finger tips, and today we get to go through some of Dr Huberman's favourites.

Expect to learn how breathing can change the shape of your face, what Andrew thinks of the “Huberman Husbands” kink, just how bad vaping actually is for you, how to increase your willpower using science, what everyone misunderstands about stress, his opinion on Tom Segura’s transformation, how to be more productive and much more...⁣

Timestamps:

(00:00) How Mouth-Breathing Changes Face Shape (08:16) What We Misunderstand About Stress (24:56) People Are Recognising the Need to Focus on Health & Fitness (31:43) How the Mind Improves When the Body Improves (40:49) The Health Risks of Drinking Alcohol (55:18) How Our Screen Use Impacts Eye Health (1:08:07) Reacting to ‘Huberman Husbands’ (1:22:32) Should We Be Concerned About Vaping? (1:33:23) Are Phones Ruining Our Focus? (1:47:49) Why Phone Use Isn’t an Addiction (2:04:52) Strategies to Become More Productive (2:15:04) The Science Behind Procrastination (2:19:58) The Perils of Over-Optimisation (2:30:00) Why Andrew Doesn’t Comment on Current Events (2:51:20) Andrew’s Increase of Popularity & Scrutiny (2:58:28) What’s Next for Andrew?

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16 Lessons From 700 Episodes - #702

November 4, 2023

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72m

To celebrate 700 episodes of Modern Wisdom, I broke down some of my favourite lessons, insights and quotes from the last hundred episodes.

Expect to learn how your expectations define your happiness more than your circumstances, what monothinking is, why the Abilene Paradox is my favourite new idea, the problem of taking advice from super successful people, how to actually achieve enlightenment, my favourite mindset hack for doing the right thing and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (00:53) Expectations Define Happiness (06:15) The Increase of Mono-Thinking (09:42) The Abilene Paradox (12:28) Stop Taking Advice From the Super-Successful (15:34) Realistic Path to Enlightenment (20:33) Make Decisions For Tomorrow’s You (24:44) Let Go of Fear & Ego (28:55) Why People Lack Empathy For Men (39:38) How to Measure When a Story Goes Truly Mainstream (40:52) Why More Women Support Body Positivity (46:10) Productivity Dysmorphia (51:11) The Problem with Monk Mode (58:35) Post-Content Clarity (1:03:48) Would You Consume Your Own Content? (1:08:13) Be Willing to Be Disliked (1:09:05) Choose Your Suck

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How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠

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