The Science Of Building Genuine Friendships - David Robson - #799
Modern Wisdom
06/20/24
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David Robson is a science writer, journalist, and an author.
Loneliness is the real pandemic. Many people yearning for connection but struggle to hold onto it. David has uncovered 13 laws of human connection which you can apply to build and deepen relationships with the people in your life.
Expect to learn whether we are actually in a loneliness crisis, how solitude impacts our health, why people are struggling to make deeper connections, how you can express appreciation more freely to others, how you can heal bad feelings, why asking for help is important, why it’s so important get better at forgiving others and much more...
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(00:00) Are We in a Loneliness Crisis? (04:09) How Important is Social Connection? (09:33) The Expectation Effect in Loneliness (13:40) Impact of Loneliness on Creativity & Finances (18:13) Quality or Quantity of Friends? (25:21) Categorising People as Introvert & Extrovert (33:31) Developing the Art of Conversation (44:10) How to Express Appreciation Better (48:33) Why You Need More Self-Compassion (58:29) The Novelty Penalty in Storytelling (01:03:12) Does Lying Ever Have Value? (01:10:56) How Much Should You Talk About Successes? (01:18:55) Why You Should Ask for Help More (01:24:27) Overcoming the Gratitude Gap (01:28:17) How to Heal Bad Feelings With Others (01:35:40) David’s Favourite Study From the Book (01:40:15) Where to Find David
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Layne Norton is a Doctor of Nutritional Science, a powerlifter and an author.
Choosing the right diet and training plan for health can be complicated. Science offers one view, while your trainer suggests another. Fortunately, Layne provides all the expertise you need to find the best diets, foods, and lifestyle for you to build the healthiest and best version of yourself.
Expect to learn why people keep failing at their diets, if there is a best diet for overall health and wellness, Laynes thoughts on the new Ozempic craze, if the Carnivore diet is actually healthy for you, the top health foods you should be eating more of, how bad soy is for your health or if the hype is overblown, and much more...
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(00:00) Why So Many Diets Fail (05:44) How to Change Your Identity (16:21) Why You Aren’t Closer to Your Goals (21:04) Importance of Celebrating Wins & Having Fun (35:10) Best Diet for Fat Loss (41:16) Why People Are Tribal About Diets (48:00) Layne’s Thoughts on Weight Loss Drugs (58:43) Would Layne Recommend the Carnivore Diet? (01:15:59) Best Sources of Dietary Fibre (01:20:29) Small Adjustments for Big Results (01:27:35) Is it Possible to Build Muscle on a Vegan Diet? (01:37:25) Current Hype Around the Microbiome (01:43:41) What Layne Thinks of Gary Brecka (01:50:16) How Big a Deal is Insulin? (01:58:40) Layne’s Favourite Diet Hacks (02:09:34) Supplements That Everybody Should Have (02:24:51) Where to Find Layne
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15 Lessons From 800 Episodes - #800
June 22, 2024
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To celebrate 800 episodes of Modern Wisdom, I broke down some of my favourite lessons, insights and quotes from the last hundred episodes.
Expect to learn why starting the day with an imagined productivity debt is making you miserable, why being competent can be more of a curse than a blessing, how to easily assess how good an idea is, why obesity is a bigger problem than starvation, what I learned from Winston Churchill's father, how to predict culture war news stories, why it's so important to communicate directly and much more...
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(0:00) The Productivity Debt (08:00) The Curse of Competence (13:43) Be More Sanguine (15:23) The Power of Low Self-Esteem (19:26) Obesity is a Bigger World Threat than Hunger (20:56) Focus Less on Wealth & More on Lifestyle (29:46) The Culture Wars Shiny Object Cycle (37:05) Fighting Against Cynicism (40:34) Don’t Wait for Life to Happen (44:13) The Danger of Shadow Sentences (55:25) The Best Heuristic for Finding Friends (57:38) Find the Others (01:00:58) Most Important Lessons About Stress (01:08:12) Ending
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