The Evolutionary Psychology Of Friendship - Dr Jaimie Krems - #553

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11/17/22

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Dr Jaimie Krems is an Assistant Professor at Oklahoma State University and a social psychologist whose research explores human social cognition, emotions, and behaviour.

Evolution has shaped the way that men and women make and break friendships. It's made us into life-saving, caring, aggressive, jealous, friend-guarding, backbiting, gossiping animals, but why is it that male and female friendships are so different, plus a ton of other fascinating insights.

Expect to learn why a woman's body shape is so important to her attractiveness, why venting is a manipulative social strategy, how men with dad bods are literally perceived as better dads, why women who have casual sex are seen as having lower self-esteem even though there's no data to back it up, how a pro-life stance on abortion might be less virtuous than people first think and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (00:24) How Male & Female Friendships Differ (08:38) The Female Need to Vent (18:01) How Attractiveness Impacts Female Friendships (25:30) Finding a Balance of Jealousy (31:49) Perceiving Women’s Shapes & Sizes (41:54) Why Women Dress the Way They Do (47:56) Does Slut-Shaming Come More From Men Than Women? (55:33) Attitudes to Abortion as a Mating Strategy (1:06:47) Impact of Sexual Strategy on Religious Beliefs (1:11:26) Relationship Between Casual Sex & Self-Esteem (1:19:29) What’s Next for Jaimie’s Research (1:24:46) The Need for Friendship for Happiness (1:29:34) Where to Find Dr Krems

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Understanding The Wisdom Of Psychopaths - Dr Kevin Dutton - #552

November 14, 2022

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72m

Dr Kevin Dutton is a psychologist, author, and elite performance consultant whose research focuses on persuasion and social influence, psychopathic personality and elite cognition.

Psychopaths get a bad rap. Perhaps understandably. They have a branding problem to say the least. But there are some personality traits like emotional control, focus, drive and single-mindedness that elite performers can model off of psychopaths to improve their effectiveness.

Expect to learn how psychopathy exists at all, why teams kicking second in a penalty shootout have a 30% greater chance of missing, why psychopath pilots in world war 2 didn't make it home even though they won their fights, how different accents can be more prejudiced against than different races, why splitting the world into categories creates a foundation for huge biases to occur and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (03:13) Why Does Psychopathy Exist? (10:05) Psychology of Penalty Shootouts (18:01) The Human Ability to Categorise (28:13) Lessons on Narrow Focus from Hoarders (38:55) Kevin’s Studies of Conmen (47:30) The Evolution of Super-Categories (55:49) Why a Different Accent Evokes Prejudice (1:02:13) How Brains Conflate Simplicity with Truth (1:11:33) Where to Find Dr Dutton

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9 Strategies To Better Control Your Time - Laura Vanderkam - #554

November 19, 2022

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61m

Laura Vanderkam is a time management expert and an author.

Time is non-renewable. It's the single most important asset we have, and yet almost everyone wishes they spent their time differently. Thankfully Laura has distilled 9 of her best strategies from years of coaching people on how to control their time more effectively.

Expect to learn what everyone is getting wrong when it comes to writing their to-do lists, why intentionality is such a crucial skill to develop, how having a bedtime can fix your daytime schedule issues, how to make boring routine tasks suck less, a simple solution to ensure you do hard things and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (00:22) Why Is Time Management So Overwhelming? (04:44) Common Errors in Managing Time (09:28) Creating a Life That You Enjoy (19:49) The Need to Set a Bedtime (25:06) Use Fridays for Planning (29:50) Do Physical Activity By 3pm (32:47) Form Habits by Doing Something 3x a Week (38:42) Creating Backup Slots in Your Schedule (43:19) One Big Adventure, One Little Adventure (50:12) Batching the Little Tasks in Life (1:00:19) Where to Find Laura

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