How to Treat Men Better - Alison Armstrong - #1026
Modern Wisdom
11/29/25
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Alison Armstrong is a relationship coach, speaker, and author.
Are modern gender dynamics leaving men feeling ‘castrated’? While men are often blamed for today’s social problems, far less attention is given to how shifting expectations of women and relationships may also shape male identity. What role do women play in this dynamic—and how can it be improved?
Expect to learn how important it is for women to seem impressed or giddy or appreciative of their partner, how women can appear more receptive or appreciative, why men are being emasculated by women, how women can stop castrating men and much more...
Timestamps:
(0:00) The Search for Heaven on Earth (5:28) Are Men Really As Simple As They Seem? (14:53) Why Safety Shapes Women’s Choices (25:14) The Twelve Foundations of True Compatibility (31:03) The Four Traits That Make Women Irresistibly Charming (40:02) Why Men Thrive on Being Needed (52:04) Are Independent Women Emasculating Men? (01:02:57) Surrender vs. Submission: The Trust Dilemma (01:14:42) When Your Needs Begin to Break the Relationship (01:24:08) How Women Accidentally Teach Men to Shut Down (01:36:22) The Hidden Triggers That Make Men Feel Small (01:56:54) Should Women Prioritise Taking Care of Men? (02:01:39) The Three Energies of the Attractive Man (02:15:41) Do All Babies Really Look Like Their Fathers? (02:26:37) The Actions That Earn Men the Most Love (02:38:36) Why Women Want Men Who Think Like Them (02:45:23) What's Next for Alison?
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Understanding the Psychology of Perfectionism - Dr Paul Hewitt - #1025
November 27, 2025
•88m
Dr Paul Hewitt is a clinical psychologist, professor, and leading researcher on perfectionism.
Why do so many of us struggle with perfectionism? For some, it started in childhood—but its impact as an adult can be exhausting. So how do you actually break the cycle and get comfortable with things being imperfect?
Expect to learn what they archetypal perfectionist is and how they became themselves, the bevaviour of a perfectionist and how to differentiate between productive and toxic perfectionism, if perfectionism is related to burnout, why having high standards might not be a great thing, how to get out of the perfectionism trap, and much more...
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(0:00) The Traumas That Create Perfectionists (7:11) Inside Their Minds: An Imperfect Nightmare (16:30) Will Anything Ever Be Enough? (27:10) The Three Levels of Perfectionist Hell (32:51) The Link to Depression (38:23) The World Sees Through Your Mask (45:49) Performance Enhancer or Toxic Fuel? (54:08) The Standards That Kill Healthy Relationships (59:58) Why Imperfection Feels Like Failure (01:08:48) The First Steps to Healing (01:19:00) If You Have a Perfectionist in Your Life... (01:23:55) Dive Deeper
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The Secret to Overcoming Imposter Syndrome - Mel Robbins - #1027
December 1, 2025
•108m
Mel Robbins is a motivational speaker, podcast host and author.
If motivation can’t be trusted, what should you rely on instead? Bestselling author and top podcaster Mel Robbins explains why discipline and emotional control are the real keys to success, and how to build the mindset needed to follow through when it counts.
Expect to learn why we cling to control even when we know it makes us miserable and why we focus on things we can't control, how to better deal with the judgment of others, where self-compassion comes from, how to get a grip on your anxiety and ADHD, what "Let Them" theory means and how to employ it, where self-compassion actually comes from and much more...
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(0:00) Why Is Everyone So Stressed Out? (7:03) The Triggers Fuelling Our Anxiety (19:50) How To Be Okay with Uncertainty (34:25) How to Tap into Your Instincts More (46:15) The Real Story Behind Mel’s Success (56:11) Choosing Acceptance and Compassion Over Criticism (01:08:14) Why the "Let Them" Theory Frees Your Mind (01:19:25) How to Choose The Right Partner (01:25:37) How to Help Others Flourish (01:36:08) The Strange Weight of Ambient Guilt (01:46:12) Returning to Gratitude and What Truly Matters
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