Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Cringe - Zack Telander - #998
Modern Wisdom
09/25/25
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Zack Telander is a musician, weightlifter, coach & YouTuber.
Why are we so afraid of being cringe? If being cringe online is the price of success, why don’t more people pay it? So how do you train yourself past criticism and actually do what needs to be done in your life, whether people are watching you or not?
Expect to learn why getting over being cringe is the key to unlocking the things you want in life, what it actually means to be “cool”, why using irony may be an overrated conversational tool, the importance of taking pleasure in the little things in life, Zack’s reflections on what it was like running for 100-days straight, the reason the health community pushes back on GLP-1's so much, why so many grifters drive critique online, and much more...
Timestamps:
(0:00) Why Being Cringe is So Ironic
(10:51) We Need to Take More Pleasure in the Little Things
(18:17) How Has the Comments Section Changed Us?
(23:18) Zack’s Opinion on Getting Out Over Your Skis
(37:25) Grifters are Driving Critique Online
(42:43) Does Trying to Be Cool Make You Cringe?
(55:22) Why Zack Thinks It’s Becoming Harder to Be Your Authentic Self
(01:03:51) Performance Massively Enhances GLP-1 Use
(01:12:33) What Zack Learnt From Running For 100 Days
(01:20:52) Chris’ Thoughts on What Makes Sport Compelling
(01:29:15) Why Chris Wishes He Cared Less About Judgement
(01:38:49) Human Connections Fill Us With Gratitude
(01:45:15) Zack’s Gratitude Towards Chris
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The Modern Sex Work Debate - Bonnie Blue & Louise Perry - #997
September 22, 2025
•133m
Louise Perry is a writer, Press Officer for the campaign group We Can’t Consent To This and an author.
Bonnie Blue is a British pornographic actress and online content creator.
Louise is the author of The Case Against The Sexual Revolution and Bonnie is the world’s most extreme example of the sexual revolution in action, so I figured it might make for an interesting discussion. I wasn’t disappointed. It’s a calm, regulated, deep dive into modern sex culture and feminism.
Expect to learn whether Louise thinks Bonnie’s work should be illegal, whether British women are being given a bad name to potential immigrants, whether Bonnie’s fertility problems contributed to her trajectory in life, whether the sexual revolution made women freer or more vulnerable, if Louise thinks that Bonnie is a psychopath, the difference between sex work and performance art and much more...
Timestamps:
(0:00) Why Does Bonnie Do Sex Work?
(10:50) Bonnie’s Thoughts on What It’s Really Like Sleeping With Lots of Men
(16:34) What Motivates Bonnie?
(21:37) Why Bonnie Doesn't Mind Women Hating Her
(27:42) Louise’s Opinion on Bonnie’s Work
(38:53) Is Bonnie’s Fame Culturally Damaging?
(52:06) Is Bonnie Teaching Men Safe and Consensual Sex?
(01:00:40) Should We Watch More Porn?
(01:07:46) What Has Bonnie Lost Through Sex Work?
(01:14:49) Bonnie’s Approach to Criticism
(01:25:06) How Does Bonnie’s Work Affect Her Family Life?
(01:33:14) Why is Bonnie Sensitive About Pregnancy?
(01:43:39) What Makes Bonnie So Interesting?
(01:52:52) Why Do People Think Bonnie is a Victim?
(01:58:36) Louise’s Analysis of Bonnie
(02:02:55) Louise and Bonnie’s Steelman Arguments
(02:11:19) What Happens Next?
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21 Lessons from 999 Episodes - Naval Ravikant, Roger Federer & Vincent van Gogh - #999
September 27, 2025
•115m
To celebrate 999, almost 1000, episodes of Modern Wisdom, I broke down some of my favourite lessons, insights and quotes from the last hundred episodes.
Expect to learn how 999 episodes of Modern Wisdom have reshaped my understanding of happiness, success and relationships, what i've learned on losing points from Naval Ravikant & Roger Federer, the best isnights on self-belief from Vincent van Gogh, what Viktor Frankl’s paradox of meaning versus pleasure means to me, the biggest insights I've gained over 7 years and 1 billion plays, why lowering your threshold for joy makes you stronger, how busyness can act as an emotional gastric band, the paradox men face between ambition and self-acceptance, how our culture rewires romantic attraction around emotional unavailability, and much more...
Timestamps:
(0:00) Ringing in 999 Videos
(4:39) Why We Need to Take Pleasure in the Small Things
(11:08) Productivity is the Same as Gastric Band Surgery
(20:59) Every Man Needs Love to Thrive
(31:16) How Can We Find Balance in Meaning and Pleasure?
(39:22) Uncertainty is a Roadblock to Happiness
(46:22) Is Modern Romance Culture Pushing Woman to Pick Emotionally Unavailable Men?
(01:03:25) Is Declining Birth Rate the Newest Cassandra Complex?
(01:18:42) 7 Lessons About Worrying and Overthinking
(01:29:07) How Can We Slow Down Time?
(01:38:24) We Need to Escape Our Old Self to Embrace Our New One
(01:45:27) Errors in Hesitation are Equal to Errors in Action
(01:50:41) Onwards and Upwards
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