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Unique Challenges of Aunts & Uncles Raising Nieces & Nephews

Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care

09/18/24

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Are you an aunt or uncle raising your nephew or niece? Or are you curious about the unique challenges these families face? Check out today's podcast with a panel of four aunts raising their sibling's child.
In this episode, we cover:

  • Who are you raising? How old were they when they moved in? How long have they been with you?
  • Didn’t ask for this.
    • Less of a feeling of obligation than grandparents feel.
  • Navigating relations with the child’s parents.
    • Frustration with your sibling (the child’s parent)
    • Long-standing resentment of the child’s parents.
    • Navigating boundaries.
  • Resentment if it’s your spouse’s niece/nephew.
  • Navigating relations between other family members who have an opinion.
  • Raising your own kids while raising your nephews and nieces.
    • Jealousies
    • Behaviors rubbing off on kids already in the family
    • Lack of time for the kids who aren’t acting out
  • Complications of being single and raising nephews and nieces.
  • Putting off having children because of the cost and time commitment to raising nieces and nephews.
  • Disagreement between parents on whether or not to take in the children.
  • Uncertainty of how long the children will be living with you.
  • Joys of raising your nephew or niece

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Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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Question: I’m a single 38-year-old woman. I’ve always been interested in fostering, but I thought I’d wait until I got married. That doesn’t seem to be on the horizon, and I’m tired of waiting. Is it possible to foster as a single woman? Will it be too hard? I prefer a baby placed with me since I'm new to parenting.
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Support the show

Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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Question: Can I use my home study for a different type of adoption?
This question arises in the following types of situations. Someone is applying to adopt an infant domestically and gets a home study from a domestic adoption agency. They then decide that they want to adopt from foster care and ask if they can use their domestic home study for foster care adoption. Or, they have applied to adopt internationally and want to know if they can use their international home study for a domestic adoption or an adoption from foster care. Or getting a home study from a foster care agency and wanting to use that for domestic infant or international adoption.
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Support the show

Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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