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How to Raise an Anti-Racist Child

Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care

06/29/22

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How can white parents raise anti-racist children in this time of violence against people of color and protests. We talk with Dr. Ann Hazzard, a clinical child psychologist who was on the faculty at Emory University in Atlanta and co-author of Something Happened in Our Town: A Child's Story about Racial Injustice; and Dr. Joy Harris, a Full-time Lecturer at Princeton Theological Seminary and co-author of The ABCs of Diversity: Helping Kids (and Ourselves!) Embrace Our Differences.
In this episode, we cover:

  • Embrace Race.org. Founded by black and mixed race parents to provide resources for raising black children.
  • One Talk at a Time https://www.caminoslab.org/onetalk Providing support for Latinx American, Asian American, African American, and Black youth and their families to have conversations about race and ethnicity. They have a separate section for Black, Asian, and Latinx parents.
  • What is the difference between not being a racist and being anti-racist?
  • What is wrong with saying and believing any of the following: "love will conquer all", “we are all one race-the human race", and “colorblind is best”.

Tip 1. Talk about Race

  • Racism thrives in silence. Why are many white parents silent on raise in general and within our families?
  • When do children start recognizes racial differences?
  • When should white parents start talking to their kids about race?
  • How to start the conversation?
  • Fantastic resources:

Tip 2: Acknowledging & Celebrating Racial Diversity

  • Why is it important to acknowledge and celebrate racial diversity?
  • How to acknowledge and celebrate racial diversity?

Tip 3: Recognize systemic/institutionalized racism and white privilege

  • What do we mean by systemic racism?
  • What do we mean by white privilege?
  • How early do kids start defaulting that things associated with being white are better than being black?
  • How can parents address institutionalize racism with their children who will likely benefit from it?
  • How do we help teach our kids to understand power inequity so they can name it, unpack it, and dismantle it when it happens in the real world.

Tip 4: Talk about Violence Against People of Color and the Protests/Resistance

  • Something Happened in Our Town: A Child's Story about Racial Injustice
  • How much should we share with our children? At what age should we talk with them about these hard topics or is it better to shield them from such “grown up” problems?
  • Talk about How People Make Change in a democracy.
  • Not a one-time conversation.
  • Appropriate conversation for age and developmental level.
  • Should young children watch the news and videos.

This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
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One of the hardest parts of being a kinship caregiver is navigating the relationship with the child's birth parent. We talk with Dr. Joseph Crumbley, a social worker, family therapist and author of “An Overview of Kinship Care”.
In this episode, we cover:

  • Creating a Family listening sessions with kinship caregivers in rural counties.
  • What are some of the complicating factors in the relationship between kinship caregivers and the child’s parents?
  • Grandparents and other caregivers sometimes feel that the child’s parents will threaten them with taking the child away if they do something that the parent disapproves of.
  • How to not enable the child’s parent but still have a relationship.
  • How to set healthy boundaries for the caregiver’s and child’s best interest when you have years of experience not setting healthy boundaries?
  • How to handle others in the family who interfere with the boundaries you’ve established?
  • I don't know if this is a question, but I really struggle with getting my kids opportunities to see their mom and siblings. All other siblings have been reunited, and I gather it's painful for their mom to see the two that were adopted by us (she surrendered her rights). Although we live relatively close to them, we have only managed 2-3 visits a year, mostly because of long periods of no responses to my texts or last-minute cancellations of planned visits. Sometimes our adopted kids can't even remember their siblings' names and it just breaks my heart. I'd love for them to have a closer relationship, but I have only limited control.
  • How to handle the anger, shame, guilt you feel at the child’s parents?
  • How to support co-parenting when the child’s parent is still not in a healthy place?
  • How to support reunification?

For more information please refer to www.drcrumbley.com.
This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
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We talk with Dr. Julie Lamb about Endometriosis and Adenomyosis. Dr. Lamb is a board-certified reproductive endocrinologist practicing at Pacific Northwest Fertility in Seattle and Bellevue and serves as clinical faculty at the University of Washington.
In this episode, we cover:
Endometriosis

  • What is endometriosis?
  • What are the symptoms of endometriosis?
  • What is the cause of endometriosis?
  • Is there a genetic link to endometriosis?
  • What factors increase your risk of developing endometriosis?
  • Does having endometriosis make you at greater risk for cancer?
  • How is endometriosis diagnosed?
  • Is a definitive diagnosis necessary before treatment?
  • How is endometriosis treated?
  • When should laparoscopic surgery to remove the endometriosis lesions be considered for the treatment of endometriosis?
  • When should hysterectomy be considered for treatment of endometriosis?
  • What are endometriomas?
  • What method is best for removing endometrial lesions: laser, electrical pulse, or other?
  • Is it possible to cure endometriosis?
  • What options are available to treat endometriosis on the fallopian tubes?
  • How does endometriosis affect fertility?
  • Does endometriosis affect the success of infertility treatment?

Adenomyosis

  • What is adenomyosis and how does it differ from endometriosis?
  • Adenomyosis vs. Fibroids
  • What are the symptoms of adenomyosis?
  • Is there a genetic link to adenomyosis?
  • How is adenomyosis diagnosed?
  • How is adenomyosis treated?
  • Does adenomyosis affect the success of infertility treatment?

General

  • More common in Black or Asian or Latina women?
  • Lupron
  • Can endometriosis be treated through diet or lifestyle changes?

This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

Please leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Support the show

Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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