THIS Is How You Deal with Difficult People | Tom Bilyeu Q&A
Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
08/27/22
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On Today's Episode: When was the last time you got into an argument? Have you been avoiding certain groups of people because the environment is so toxic? Have you caught yourself wondering after a conversation if you, in fact, were the one being difficult with someone else? While each scenario is different, the solution is nearly the same, and it requires you to show up as your best self even when it’s difficult. We can’t control other people’s emotions and responses but we are in control of our own. Leading with kindness when you encounter difficult people is the best way to ensure that you have meaningful relationships and conversations with others. You’re not always going to agree, but you can disagree and seek to understand where you may be wrong to make sure you have the healthiest relationships with family, friends, and teammates.
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction
1:34 | Toxicity In the Family
8:12 | Aggressive People In Denial
13:15 | Can’t Accept They’re Wrong
17:41 | Steel Man the Argument
23:16 | Dealing With Obnoxious People
26:32 | Know If You’re Being Difficult
29:00 | Keep Arguments Grounded
33:49 | Give People Space To Process
36:07 | Ending Difficulty for Harmony
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If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes
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THE CURE TO LAZINESS & BURNOUT (This Could Change Your Life!) | Tom Bilyeu
August 25, 2022
•102m
On Today's Episode: The frustration of sitting down to tackle that list of things to do today ends up the same way it did yesterday, the day before, and the day before that. Struggling with your most inner thoughts wondering if you’re the laziest person alive never feels good. Yet here you are dealing with the same sh*t, feeling as stuck today as you did two years ago.
Changing your beliefs and identity are the most important things you could ever do for yourself. What you believe about yourself, how you feel about yourself, and what you identify yourself as has consequences that show up in every area of your life, every single day.
Watch this episode today with an open mind willing to do something different than the same things you find yourself doing everyday. Maybe your problem isn’t about feeling lazy, but you’re suffering from burnout because you can never do enough and the things you’re doing aren’t even getting you the results you hope for.
Create yourself and your dreams through the power of habits: physical exercise, meditation, thinkitation, reading, and updating your list of the most important things.
“There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” -William Shakespeare
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Cure Burnout
0:17 | Wake Up & Workout
9:00 | Get These 2 Things Right!
29:03 | Fix Your Sleep Schedule
32:11 | When You Feel Lazy Do This!
53:34 | 10X Your Productivity
1:14:01 | Change Everything This Year
Follow Tom Bilyeu:
Website: https://impacttheory.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/
Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?
If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes
Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz
Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/
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On Today's Episode: It’s easy to admire people that have reached extraordinary levels of success, it’s hard to imagine what it takes to get there. Passing off someone’s excellence and success as unattainable for ourselves is a b.s. and it’s not what we’re about at Impact Theory.
Your beliefs are malleable and what you believe about yourself matters. How you decide to live your life and show today matters also and if you’re not happy with the way you show up or how you’re living your life then do something about it.
Brendon Burchard is one of the world’s leading high performance coaches that has impacted and trained millions of people globally. His online personal growth platform is dedicated to teaching people how to bring the joy, live with intention, love the life you live, and matter to yourself and others everyday because you show up to go all-in on whatever you decide.
You’ve heard what it takes to be successful, but very few people share how to get beyond passion and shoot for obsession to attain insane levels of success, but today we are, so let’s go.
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Brendon Burchard
2:22 | Generate the Energy You Want
10:15 | Raise Necessity with Obsession
15:51 | These 2 Things BUILD Your Identity
26:33 | Build These Skills Achieve More
35:47 | Honor the Struggle to Win
Follow Brendon Burchard:
Website: https://brendon.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brendonburchard/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brendonburchardfan
Twitter: https://twitter.com/BrendonBurchard
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/BrendonBurchard
Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?
If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes
Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz
Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/
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