
The #1 REASON This Generation Of Men Is STRUGGLING & FEELING LOST | Chris Williamson
Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
02/02/23
•112m
About
Comments
Featured In
Gender roles and equality continue to be a hot topic of discussion. As women make progress in the workplace, gender pay gaps improve, educational opportunities are getting better as women break glass ceilings.
Every action has a reaction and now we’re starting to see unintended problems arise for men. There is a mating crisis stemming from the masculinity crisis that has men and women questioning what it means to be a man.
Chris Williamson is a podcaster, YouTuber, and former professional party boy. His podcast Modern Wisdom is the inside journey of him learning out loud from some of the most interesting people on the planet. He’s working on his first book about the mating crisis and joining Tom in this thought provoking conversation about masculinity that doesn’t diminish femininity.
With women outperforming men in education and earning more than men in 2023 while also being the gatekeepers of sex men are turning to porn and video games, while women struggle to find male partners that complement their success.
Chris is very clear that this important conversation is not about putting the breaks of women, but rather solving how to put the gas on men to become worthy partners that add value, protect and preserve his relationship and family.
Follow Chris Williamson:
Website: https://chriswillx.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/ChrisWillx
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chriswilliamsonlife/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx/
Podcast: https://chriswillx.com/podcast/
Attain Your Potential - Download the FREE Impact 90 Challenge Start Pack: bit.ly/3hr3zBi
Click here to download your FREE guide to 100x YOUR EFFICIENCY IN 10 EASY STEPS: https://bit.ly/3F8qOJL
Sponsors:
Get $500 off Peloton Tread Packages that come with accessories like a heart rate band, workout mat and non-slip dumbbells. Just go to onepeleton.com to get the deal.
Join Prince EA on the hot seat, and check out Sauna Sessions wherever you get your podcasts.
Right now, you can save up to fifty percent at http://bluenile.com!
Follow Deep Purpose on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or your favorite listening app!
Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?
If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.
Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.
This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.
Subscription Benefits:
- Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more
- New episodes delivered ad-free
- Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list
- You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more:
- Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement
- Money Mindset: Business & Finance
- Relationship Theory: Relationships
- Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health
- Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Moti...
Previous Episode

The #1 REASON This Generation Of Men Is STRUGGLING & FEELING LOST | Chris Williamson
February 2, 2023
•112m
Click here to download your FREE guide to 100x YOUR EFFICIENCY IN 10 EASY STEPS: https://bit.ly/3F8qOJL
On Today's Episode:
Gender roles and equality continue to be a hot topic of discussion. As women make progress in the workplace, gender pay gaps improve, educational opportunities are getting better as women break glass ceilings.
Every action has a reaction and now we’re starting to see unintended problems arise for men. There is a mating crisis stemming from the masculinity crisis that has men and women questioning what it means to be a man.
Chris Williamson is a podcaster, YouTuber, and former professional party boy. His podcast Modern Wisdom is the inside journey of him learning out loud from some of the most interesting people on the planet. He’s working on his first book about the mating crisis and joining Tom in this thought provoking conversation about masculinity that doesn’t diminish femininity.
With women outperforming men in education and earning more than men in 2023 while also being the gatekeepers of sex men are turning to porn and video games, while women struggle to find male partners that complement their success.
Chris is very clear that this important conversation is not about putting the breaks of women, but rather solving how to put the gas on men to become worthy partners that add value, protect and preserve his relationship and family.
QUOTES:
“The alignment of essence and action would be a good way to get started with integrity.”
“It is a challenging time to be a man at the moment in 2023. I think that it is very hard for you to find a firm place to stand with your masculinity.”
“The pessimist always finds out that they’re right.”
“After a while you have to admit to yourself that your imposter syndrome has got nothing to do with your capacity and everything to do with your addiction to feeling like an imposter.”
“The male sedation hypothesis is that men are being sedated out of their status seeking and their reproductive desires through porn and video games...”
“I think men and women have biological predispositions that cause them to be better suited towards different sorts of tasks.”
“I really think that we’re going to have a mating crisis on our hands which is driven out of education and employment.”
“You have an ever increasing cohort of women competing for an ever decreasing cohort of ultra high-performing men.”
“If you give a man purpose and the ability to achieve it he will crawl over broken glass with a smile.”
“If you cannot find a partner that you genuinely are attracted to and that you genuinely want, that’s not good for you either. If one sex loses, both sexes lose.”
“Men and women are supposed to raise each other up.”
Follow Chris Williamson:
Website: https://chriswillx.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/ChrisWillx
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chriswilliamsonlife/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx/
Podcast: https://chriswillx.com/podcast/
Sponsors:
Get $500 off Peloton Tread Packages that come with accessories like a heart rate band, workout mat and non-slip dumbbells. Just go to onepeleton.com to get the deal.
Join Prince EA on the hot seat, and check out Sauna Sessions wherever you get your podcasts.
Right now, you can save up to fifty percent at http://bluenile.com!
Follow Deep Purpose on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or your favorite listening app!
Next Episode

How to FIND Fulfillment and Discover Your TRUE Self Again | Tom Bilyeu
February 6, 2023
•21m
Click here to download your FREE guide to 100x YOUR EFFICIENCY IN 10 EASY STEPS: https://bit.ly/3F8qOJL
On Today's Episode:
There you can register and get access to a free workshop. So you already know that success doesn’t necessarily mean living a fulfilling life. Many people reach levels of success without having deep meaning behind their drive or desire to succeed.
Often they arrive feeling unfulfilled and unable to bridge the gap they’ve created. Tom explains why fulfillment may be the most important factor and is almost always the solution to finding your way out of difficult situations. When you imagine living a life of fulfillment perhaps you think of gratitude, being humble and compassionate.
When Tom breaks down his formula for fulfillment you’ll see that it’s hinged on hard work, developing skills, and being of service to others and not just yourself. The path to fulfillment may involve meditation but it’s also gritty work for hardcore people that want more than successful titles and accolades.
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Fulfillment
0:30 | Tom’s Fulfillment Formula
6:12 | Surviving Chaos
9:27 | Delayed Gratification
13:20 | Fulfillment Over Achievement
16:11 | Recognize Your Fulfillment
QUOTES:
“If you're not contributing to the group, you will have this sense of meaninglessness, and this is where meaning and purpose come in. [...] it is ingrained in your mind to do that.” [4:34]
“Don't tell yourself a negative story. Don't allow yourself to loop and defeat, find people that can elevate you, find people that will, in a very real skills based way, help you see the path forward.” [9:06]
“Fulfillment is much longer in duration, it's much more resilient, I can be fulfilled, even when things are hard, even when things aren't going my way, even when it's difficult.” [12:42]
Follow Tom Bilyeu:
Website: https://impacttheory.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/
If you like this episode you’ll love
Promoted




