How Expectations Can Suffocate Your Relationship | Relationship Theory
Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
11/02/18
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In this week’s episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa discuss how to grow your relationship and support each other in achieving independent goals. This episode is sponsored by Winc! Go to trywinc.com/relationshiptheory for $20 off your purchase! Subscribe to Women of Impact podcast here: https://apple.co/2oT9GPQ Subscribe to Women of Impact YouTube here: www.youtube.com/womenofimpact FOLLOW TOM BILYEU INSTAGRAM: http://bit.ly/2j7vqX8 FACEBOOK: http://bit.ly/2hPStWo TWITTER: http://bit.ly/2iyjY5P FOLLOW LISA BILYEU INSTAGRAM: http://bit.ly/2tMtCUX FACEBOOK: http://bit.ly/2rTysON DOWNLOAD the Relationship Revelations Questionnaire: http://bit.ly/2GJp33N DOWNLOAD the 25 Bullet Impact Theory Belief System: http://bit.ly/2ubknRe SHOP: http://bit.ly/2rtRN8T FACEBOOK GROUP: http://bit.ly/2rg1AjM TOM BILYEU READING LIST: http://bit.ly/2rZdpO9
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The Best of Tom Bilyeu AMA | October 2018
October 31, 2018
•31m
Tom answers questions from the community. Impact Theory is proudly sponosred by: Skillshare. Start learning on Skillshare today at skillshare.com/impact Subscribe to our Channel: http://bit.ly/2HP4F3h Tom Bilyeu AMA’s are Live on Facebook and YouTube every Friday at 10 am PST. You can submit your questions in advance to connect@impacttheory.com, with the subject line “AMA Question”. PEOPLE MENTIONED James Altucher 9:30 David Goggins 27:40 QUESTION TOPICS 00 :12 - Why you need to stop defining who you are based off the people around you and how to escape the negative thought loop 4:41 - How to get out of a victim mindset by shifting your ego to something totally different than what most people think (and the story of Tom’s life-changing “lightning rod moment”) 10:46 - What to do if you think you’re too old to start... Just turn the weapons of belief into your favor by changing your self-talk. (Say positive shit to yourself!) 14:28 - How to avoid going into a negative spiral of thought and develop an unshakeable belief in yourself 19:33 - How to cultivate a growth mindset, overcome deep insecurity, stop looking for approval and learn how to love yourself. 22: 17 - Which beliefs you need to let go of if you’re going to get anything worthwhile in life... and why you should consider living by a code. 24:40 - A massive heartbreaker for the “I want it now generation” and why you need to fall in love with fundamentals... 28:25 - How to break free of anxiety and procrastination by interrupting “identity level” beliefs . . .
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#97 Kyle Cease on Why You Need to Stop Saying What People Want to Hear
November 6, 2018
•30m
Former standup comic turned transformation expert, Kyle Cease helps people evolve through ditching their “old story”. He started performing stand up comedy at the age of 12 and was headlining by the time he was 18 making him one of the youngest headlining acts in the country. He is the author of the bestselling book “I Hope I Screw This Up” and on this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, you’re going to see how the story you tell yourself may be the wrong one. Impact Theory is proudly sponsored by: Skillshare. Start learning on Skillshare today at skillshare.com/impact Four Sigmatic: Visit foursigmatic.com/impacttheory for 15% off your order Audible; Try Audible Free here: audible.com/impact ButcherBox. Use the discount code: “IMPACT” at butcherbox.com to get 20$ off and FREE BACON SHOW NOTES: Why Kyle doesn’t prepare or plan [2:20] The difference between goals and intentions [5:09] How to get rid of your past story [8:00] How to break out of the process of repeating your old stories [11:45] The 2 voices you have that decide your life [14:56] The building blocks of a healthy self-story [18:11] The story of Kyle’s mother passing away just 6 weeks before the birth of his daughter [19:23] The story of how Kyle personally had to release an old story [21:37] QUOTES: “I feel like if I planned ahead you wouldn’t be hearing me, you’d be hearing something I prepared.” [2:24] “We live in a world where we don’t say what we’re thinking. We say what people want to hear.” [3:21] “Life can mirror what your intention is” [5:26] “If you undo yourself from the old story, you can change really fast.” [7:38] “Society’s kind of crazy.” [7:38] “I really believe that no person has ever broken your heart, but they break your expectations. And by breaking your expectations, they get you closer to your heart.“ [21:56] FOLLOW KYLE CEASE: WEBSITE - KyleCease.com // Evolvingoutloud.com TWITTER - https://twitter.com/kylecease?lang=en YOUTUBE - https://www.youtube.com/user/kylecease INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/evolvingoutloud/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/KyleCeasePage/ BOOKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: I Hope I Screw This Up - http://a.co/d/cSJfQXn The Illusion of Money: Why Chasing Money Is Stopping You From Receiving It PEOPLE MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Deepak Chopra - https://twitter.com/DeepakChopra Tony Robbins - https://twitter.com/TonyRobbins Jim Carrey - https://twitter.com/JimCarrey Eckhart Tolle - https://twitter.com/EckhartTolle Oprah - https://twitter.com/Oprah Donald Trump - https://twitter.com/realDonaldTrump TV SHOWS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Comedy Central Laugh Riots Competition Comedy Central Stand up Showdown Jimmy Kimmel Live Chelsey Lately MOVIES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: 10 Things I Hate About You - http://a.co/d/bjY8xC1 Not Another Teen Movie - http://a.co/d/cPR5RkC
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