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The Mating Grounds Podcast - Why Are So Many Men Pussy Whipped Or Afraid Of Their Wives?
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Why Are So Many Men Pussy Whipped Or Afraid Of Their Wives?

The Mating Grounds Podcast

03/25/15

24m

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In this Q&A episode, Tucker Max, Nils Parker, and Dr. Geoff Miller break apart this question, the details he gave, and the assumptions he is making. They explain how if you see a guy who is to be subservient to or "pussy whipped" by his girlfriend or wife, you are only looking at a small part of their relationship and making assumptions based just on that. It's unlikely that you know their entire relationship history and all the dynamics going on.

Sometimes, a woman is just awful or the man has given up too much control and dominance in a relationship (No More Mr. Nice guy is a great analysis of this problem). But ask yourself, "Why is this happening in the first place and why is he still with her?" Staying in that relationship is a choice that as a man you have to take responsibility for.

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If you live in a very racist state (Arizona) or city (Boston) move!

In this Q&A Tucker Max, Dr. Geoff Miller, and Nils Parker explain how sometimes the problem is 100% your mating market and not you. If that’s the case and you want to be successful with women, you need to leave.

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This Bad Advice is from old people who are angry about new technology like texting. 20 years ago when calling was the default, this advice would have been valid. Now the default is texting, especially for young people.

The data shows that many women under 30 think calling is an intrusion of privacy and inconvenient or rude. To them, you are not more manly, courageous, or gentlmanly. You are just weird.

This is why understanding social groups is so important. Everything you do is contingent on that. Whatever is normal to do in that group is what you should be doing:

  • If you are in your 40s asking out a woman in her 30s or 40s, call her.
  • If you are in your 20s asking out a woman in her 20s, text her.

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