How Do I Ask A Girl Out Who Is At Work And May Be Flirting With Me?
The Mating Grounds Podcast
02/18/15
•14m
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Women who work are usually paid to be nice to you, especially bartenders and waitresses. If you like her, there are low risk ways to see if she's interested. In this episode, Tucker Max, Nils Parker, and Dr. Geoff Miller talk about how to gather information ( Does she have a boyfriend? ), talk to her like a friend, and ask her out in an easy way (think social, not 1:1) so you don't creep out a woman who is 'trapped' at work. Nils, who was a bartender in his 20s, also gives advice on how to tell when a bartender or waitress is into you. Hint: 90% of the time, she's flirting with your wallet, not you. That's her job, dude.
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How Do I Use Humor And Teasing With Women At Bars?
February 17, 2015
•28m
Humor is very attractive and displays many traits like intelligence, social proof, mental health. Not everyone can be a comedian, but you can go out with good friends, make fun of eachother, and bring women into the fun.
In this Q&A, Nils Parker, Tucker Max, and Dr. Geoff Miller explain the basics and low risk ways to use humor, be funny, and tease:
- Making fun of yourself and your friends is attractive
- Even having just one hilarious good friend is enough to make you better.
- How to tease women without going too far.
- Why punching up is better than punching down.
- How to make funny observations of other odd people around you.
- And why joke quality is better than joke quantity.
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How Do I Take Myself Less Seriously And Be Less Shy Around People?
February 19, 2015
•22m
Taking yourself too seriously can mean many things like you may have no sense of humor or you're too into yourself. In this episode, Dr. Miller, Tucker, and Nils explain how self-deprecating humor, making fun of yourself, is the best first step you can take to being less serious. Research shows many positives associated with this type of humor.
Sometimes, being shy and reserved is a result of your social group. If that is true for you, find people or places where you are more comfortable to open up. Even having one great friend who is more playful to go out with is great. And as a last resort, ask people about themselves. Take a genuine interest in what they know that you don't know and build from there.
They also mentioned a past podcast on communication that you can to listen in order to solve this problem.
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