The Truth About School Evaluations Parents Need to Hear
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02/04/26
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Discover a powerful perspective shift on educational evaluations that eliminates stigma and empowers families. In this transformative reel clip, Stacey Shubitz shares how one parent reframed the evaluation process as "finding the key to unlock the brain" – a beautiful metaphor that changes everything about how we approach student struggles and student success.
If your child is experiencing low engagement, classroom behavior challenges, or attention in class difficulties, this video offers hope and clarity. Educational evaluations aren't about labels – they're about understanding the whole child and creating pathways to thriving students through culturally responsive teaching, inclusive classrooms, and effective teaching strategies.
Perfect for teachers, education coaches, school administrators, parents, homeschoolers, teacher mentors, instructional leaders, and school counselors seeking to build a pro-kid mindset and strengthen the home-school connection.
What You'll Learn:
• How to eliminate evaluation stigma for families and students
• A powerful way to explain evaluations that empowers children
• Why seeking help through evaluation supports student engagement and student motivation
• Building equity in education through understanding and support
• Strengthening parent communication and family partnerships
• Creating inclusive teaching environments that celebrate every learner
This approach supports classroom belonging, student participation, and education transformation by shifting from shame to solution-focused support. Whether you're involved in instructional coaching, teacher support, professional development, or parent involvement, this message reinforces that evaluations create easier pathways for learning and living.
For: New teachers, mentor teachers, instructional leaders, school leadership teams, and caregivers seeking innovative teaching strategies and caregiver support.
Building school culture that prioritizes the whole child, teacher impact, and inspired teaching starts with changing the conversation around support and evaluation.
🚀📚 Watch Part One (https://youtu.be/VP81-Crxvwc) & Part Two (https://youtu.be/xen2OnJjiRM) of our @schoolutionspodcast S5E23 interview.
Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction: A Parent's Powerful Perspective
0:15 - The "Key to Unlock the Brain" Metaphor
0:35 - Breaking Down the Evaluation Stigma
0:50 - Evaluation as Help, Not a Label
1:10 - Making School and Home Easier for Children
1:25 - Final Thoughts: Empowering Families Through Understanding
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🎵 Music: Benjamin Wahl
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When coaches, teachers, administrators, and families work hand in hand, it fosters a school atmosphere where everyone is inspired and every student is fully engaged in their learning journey.
Previous Episode
Part One of my S5E23 @schoolutionspodcast conversation, literacy specialist and parent Stacey Shubitz shares her dual perspective on navigating special education. If you've ever felt lost in IEP meetings or unsure how to advocate for your child, this episode is your roadmap.
Stacey, author of Make the School System Work for Your Child With Disabilities, reveals why leading with your child's strengths—not deficits—changes everything. She breaks down the difference between IEPs and 504 plans, shares the exact phrases to use when schools push back on accommodations, and explains why evaluations are actually keys to unlocking easier learning paths for your child.
Whether you're a teacher wanting to better support families, a parent feeling overwhelmed by the system, or an administrator seeking to improve parent communication and family partnerships, you'll walk away with practical strategies you can use tomorrow.
Key Topics Covered:
- Special education vs. general education: understanding the difference
- IEPs vs. 504 plans explained clearly
- Leading with strengths in the evaluation process
- Effective teaching strategies for inclusive classrooms
- Parent involvement and home-school connection best practices
- Professional development for supporting students with disabilities
- Culturally responsive teaching and equity in education
- Student engagement and classroom belonging for all learners
- Teacher support and instructional coaching insights
- Self-care for caregivers navigating the special education system
Get in touch with Stacey:
🔗 Get Stacey's book: PROMO CODE EMJAN1533 for 15% off ***promotion expires February 21, 2026
Some Episode Mentions:
➡️Emily Ladau
➡️Own Voices Movement
Chapters
0:00 Introduction: Navigating Special Education with Confidence
1:00 Meet Stacey Shubitz: Educator and Parent Perspective
3:00 The Book That Changes Everything
4:00 Learning from Own Voices in Disability
6:00 Two Hats: Educator and Parent
7:00 Special Education vs. General Education Explained
9:00 IEPs vs. 504 Plans: The Difference That Matters
10:00 Reframing Evaluations: Unlocking Your Child's Brain
12:00 Leading with Strengths, Not Deficits
14:00 Navigating Communication Breakdowns
16:00 Your Go-To Resource Guide
17:00 Lightning Round: IEP Meeting Essentials
17:15 When to Request IEP Revisions
17:45 The One Document to Keep on Your Phone
18:15 Phrases for Advocating for Accommodations
18:45 Biggest Myth About Special Education
19:15 Self-Care for Parents: The Power of Meditation
20:00 Coming Up in Part 2: Life Beyond School
🎧 New episodes every Monday & Friday with bite-sized Wednesday reel bonus content.
📧 Connect: schoolutionspodcast@gmail.com
🎵 Music: Benjamin Wahl
When coaches, teachers, administrators, and families work hand in hand, it fosters a school atmosphere where everyone is inspired and every student is fully engaged in their learning journey.
Next Episode
Welcome back to Part Two of my S5E23 @schoolutionspodcast conversation with Stacey Shubitz. We discuss the importance of looking beyond just IEP goals and accommodations in special education. Stacey emphasizes considering child development and the need for downtime, joy, and culturally relevant books. Caregivers can use these parenting tips to provide emotional support and foster inclusive education for children with disabilities outside of school hours.
Stacey reveals the surprising advice a speech pathologist gave her: "Take care of your marriage," tucked between recommendations for two-word sentences was perhaps the most important guidance she'd receive. She shares what happens when caregivers don't take care of themselves (shorter fuses, emotional overwhelm, everything feeling like a catastrophe) and the permission we all need to hear: it's okay to skip therapy homework sometimes.
This isn't about surviving—it's about thriving. About curating joy intentionally. About finding children's books that help siblings develop empathy. About protecting your relationships while advocating for your child.
Key Topics Covered:
- The 130 hours: structuring life beyond school walls
- Permission to take "speech therapy vacations" and why downtime matters
- Curating joy vs. relentless therapy schedules
- Children's books as windows, mirrors, and doors for disability understanding
- Supporting siblings through literature and conversation
- Caregiver self-care isn't optional—it's essential
- Nurturing couple relationships while parenting children with disabilities
- What happens when we don't take care of ourselves
- Creating safe spaces for family dialogue about disability
- The whole child approach to family life
💫Check out Part One if you missed it on Monday!
🔗 Get Stacey's book: Make the School System Work for Your Child With Disabilities at (PROMO CODE EMJAN1533 for 15% off (expires 2/21/26)
Chapters
0:00 Introduction: The 130 Hours Nobody Talks About
1:00 Beyond IEPs: Life Outside School Walls
2:00 Welcome Back: Part 2 with Stacey Shubitz
3:00 Why Include Life Beyond School?
4:00 Permission to Take Speech Therapy Vacations
5:00 Curating Joy Intentionally
5:30 The Importance of Downtime and Rest
6:00 When Your Child Says "I Can't Practice Today"
7:00 Vision Therapy Without Homework: A Game Changer
8:00 Modeling Healthy Rest Habits
8:30 Connection Through Reading Together
9:00 Children's Books That Nurture Empathy
10:00 Windows, Mirrors, and Doors in Disability Literature
11:00 Books for Siblings: Building Understanding
12:00 Creating Safe Spaces for Family Dialogue
13:00 What Happens When Caregivers Don't Self-Care
14:00 The Marriage Advice That Changed Everything
15:00 Finding Your Anchor: Partners and Support Systems
16:00 Vulnerability, Mentorship, and Gratitude
17:00 Resources and Book Recommendations
18:00 Promo Code for Stacey's Book
18:30 Next Week: Foundational Writing Skills Research
19:00 Closing: You're Doing Better Than You Think
Next Week: Melanie Meehan and Maggie Beattie Roberts are joining me to reveal groundbreaking research behind their new book on foundational writing skills. We're unpacking how understanding the brain's role in writing—from handwriting to executive function—can transform how we teach every child to become a confident, capable writer.
When coaches, teachers, administrators, and families work hand in hand, it fosters a school atmosphere where everyone is inspired and every student is fully engaged in their learning journey.
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