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BONUS: How to Spot a Con Artist on the First Date and When to Walk Away

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11/26/24

50m

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In this episode, Dr. Jan Canty, a psychologist, author, and podcast host, shares essential advice on recognizing and avoiding con artists in modern relationships. Dr. Canty, who experienced betrayal and tragedy in her life, offers insights into the red flags of deceptive individuals and provides practical tips for safeguarding against potential scams. Through her 'Don't Con Yourself' TikTok series, Dr. Canty breaks down each stage of interactions with con artists and how to protect oneself. She also discusses her life’s work in grief counseling, her compelling past, and the importance of trusting your gut feeling in relationships.

Tune in to learn more about navigating the complexities of dating and protecting your personal boundaries.

00:20 Jan Canty's Tragic Past

01:05 Recognizing Con Artists

04:34 Understanding Psychopaths and Sociopaths

05:21 First Date Red Flags

14:24 Trusting Your Gut Instinct

16:09 CIA Techniques for Identifying Lies

21:34 Gaslighting

23:29 Dramatic and Unusual Histories

25:10 Understanding the Significance of Tattoos

28:26 The Importance of Personal Boundaries

29:26 Dealing with Missed Warning Signs

32:03 The Dangers of Sharing Personal Information Prematurely

35:14 Early Attempts at Control in Relationships

38:26 Preparing to Exit a Toxic Relationship

46:08 Finding True Love After Hardships

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