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The Pain of Perfectionism: How Unrealistic Expectations Can Hurt Our Kids

Parenting Today's Teens

11/20/24

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In this episode, Mark Gregston delves into how parents, even with the best intentions, can unintentionally place unrealistic expectations on their children, often leading to misunderstandings and frustration. Mark emphasizes that while striving for greatness is valuable, expecting perfection can create lasting harm for both parents and teens. Mark also reminds us of the gentle invitation from Matthew 11:28-30, where Jesus offers rest and relief from the burdens of perfectionism. You don't want to miss this!

For more on understanding your teen’s heart and insights for how you can lead them through their unique challenges, check out Daily Hope For Families at parentingtodaysteens.org/product/daily-hope-for-families.

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org.

Previous Episode

Teens struggling with depression may find it very hard to keep up with the pressures of life — they feel weighed down, and they're not sure how to talk about it. In today's show, Mark talks with two teens who both struggled with depression and suicidality. Ian, Heartlight’s first resident from Vermont, opens up about his struggle with anxiety and substance abuse. We hear how he found hope and purpose at Heartlight, and is now looking forward to a bright future, including attending college. Tune in now!

To learn more about the Heartlight program, go to heartlightministries.org

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org.

Next Episode

In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepard speak directly to parents about the essential role they play in guiding their children through today’s challenging cultural landscape, especially regarding online content. With easy access to the internet, it's more important than ever for parents to proactively support and engage with their children. The conversation emphasizes teaching redemption, forgiveness, and healthy perspectives, while sharing practical advice for fostering open, honest and ongoing conversations with teens.

If your teen is struggling, see if Mark’s ministry, Heartlight Ministries, can help by visiting heartlightministries.org.

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org.

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