Why Sensitive People Enjoy Feeling Sad - Susan Cain - #485
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06/11/22
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Susan Cain is a best-selling author and speaker.
There’s a tyranny of positivity in the modern world. Talking about emotions like longing and sorrow are not usually encouraged. And yet tons of people feel like this and hearing others tell us about their melancholy brings us closer to them, so how can we integrate bittersweet emotions into our lives and what can they teach us about ourselves?
Expect to learn whether the world has become better for introverts, why sad music seems to make us happy, whether people are genetically predisposed to feeling bittersweet emotions, how to deal with impermanence in life when everyone we love is going to die, why I felt sad after looking at the moon and much more...
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(00:00) Intro (00:19) Is the World More Introvert-Friendly? (03:34) The Need to Embrace Joy & Sorrow (09:48) Experiences of Awe & Dread (17:00) Where Creativity Comes From (26:48) Struggling to Accept Being Introverted (36:38) The Tyranny of Positivity (41:01) Witnessing a Lunar Eclipse (47:31) Being Open in Competitive Environments (55:44) How to Accept Death (1:08:01) Where to Find Susan
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8 Impossible Thought Experiments - Cosmic Skeptic - #484
June 9, 2022
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Alex O'Connor is a philosopher, podcaster & a YouTuber.
Philosophy is hard. Ethics are hard. Working out what is moral is hard. Today we get to put our mental muscles to the test with some of the most challenging thought experiments in moral philosophy.
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Gurwinder Bhogal is a programmer and a writer.
Gurwinder is one of my favourite Twitter follows. He’s written another monstrous thread exploring human nature, cognitive biases, mental models, status games, crowd behaviour and social media. It's one of the best things I've read this year, so I just had to bring him on.
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