Why Are Young Men Feeling So Lost? - Mike Thurston - #607

Modern Wisdom

03/27/23

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Mike Thurston is a podcaster, YouTuber and a fitness model.

Me and Mike went to university together 15 years ago. Even though we were odd, awkward creatures, there was no pressure to get our life together. In 2023, it seems like there is much more pressure on both men and women to sort it out. What's changed, and why is life more confusing than ever before?

Expect to learn why Mike wants Derek from More Plates More Dates to test him for steroids, why going to university wasn't a waste of time, why Mike stopped drinking alcohol, what he thinks about Greg Doucette's Youtube Channel, why women are just as lost as men, the problems of masculinity in the modern world and much more...

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro (01:30) How Mike Created a Platform Without the Drama (06:20) Would Mike Get Tested by Derek MPMD? (12:50) Will Jesse James Will Burn Out? (19:20) Advice for YouTube Beginners (23:14) Why Are Men Feeling Lost? (33:56) The Essence of True Masculinity (38:00) Spending Time with Andrew Tate (44:17) The Lack of Female Role Models (51:41) Mike’s Relationship with Alcohol (1:01:35) Developing New Skills (1:07:14) Why Logan & Jake Paul Seem Indestructible (1:13:41) What Mike is Doing Next (1:19:01) Where to Find Mike

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The Rise And Fall Of The Girlboss Meme - Katherine Dee - #606

March 25, 2023

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74m

Katherine Dee is a writer, journalist and internet historian.

There are lots of male subcultures. Incels, RedPill, Pickup Artists, Soy Boys. But what are women getting up to? Trends like Hot Girls Have IBS. Hot Girls Eat Fish. And most well known, the girlboss meme. Katherine is here to explain just what is happening in the oestrogen-fuelled underbelly of the internet.

Expect to learn why the girlboss meme came about, why there is a coming wave of sex-negativity, whether it really is possible to be hot while you have IBS, Katherine's biggest red flags when choosing a partner, whether it should be legal to pay to drug women so you can have sex with their lifeless bodies, why predictable is good when dating and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (02:06) Katherine’s Prediction of Sex Negativity (06:43) TikTok Rips off Tumblr’s Originality (10:09) The Death of the Girlboss Archetype (19:44) Looking to the Future of Female Trends (29:40) Young Guys are Taking Relationship Examples from the Internet (36:50) Why Women Get Paranoid When They Like a Man (39:38) Red Flags to Look For in a Man (40:22) Beware of Convoluted Dating Advice (41:38) Be Direct, Not Desperate (43:05) Don’t Be Too Available for Sex (45:40) Why Predictability is Good for Relationships (48:17) Relationships Should Always Have Forward Momentum (49:45) You Can’t Manipulate Your Way into Relationship with Sex (51:23) Learn from People Through Their Jokes (53:11) Don’t Look for People Similar to Your Ex (53:41) Be the Less Invested Partner (54:46) If You’re Composing a Reply on Apple Notes, It’s Time to Break Up (55:35) Don’t Date Someone if You Wouldn’t Be Comfortable Marrying Them (57:56) Why You Shouldn’t Date Down (1:01:40) Does Body Count Matter? (1:03:17) Durable Relationships Come From Shared Values (1:05:22) The Problem with the ‘I Love You’ Text 6 Months Later (1:06:32) Incels are Right About ‘Emotional Tampons’ (1:07:31) If You’re Drinking & Smoking to Have Sex, You Don’t Like it (1:12:05) People Giving Advice are Speaking to Themselves (1:13:08) Katherine’s Next Projects

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How Does The Human Mind Work? - Paul Bloom - #608

March 30, 2023

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88m

Paul Bloom is Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto, Professor Emeritus of Psychology at Yale University and an author.

The human mind is a mystery. If it wasn't for the fact that we experience it, the universe would give us absolutely no indication that consciousness existed. After an entire career studying psychology, Professor Bloom has some answers to the psychology questions we've all asked ourselves.

Expect to learn whether you actually remember everything that you've ever experienced, whether we know why consciousness evolved at all, why we should remember Sigmund Freud, why babies are way smarter than you think, whether attachment theory is rubbish, if psychology can tell us how to live a good life and much more...

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro (00:25) What Do We Know About Human Consciousness? (07:42) The Usefulness of the Human Memory System (15:47) Does Our Tribal Nature Make Us Racist? (21:22) How to Improve Attention (25:57) Should Freud Be Taken Seriously in 2023? (35:51) How to Find a Balance Between Thoughts & Body (39:00) Why Behaviourism Theory Has Become So Unpopular (47:26) How Much Do Babies & Dogs Actually Know? (51:56) Relationship Between Language & Thought (57:10) Biggest Differences Between Male & Female Psychology (1:02:34) Is Attachment Theory Nonsense? (1:12:55) The Need to Reform Education Around Heritability (1:19:37) Can Psychology Help Us Understand How to Live a Good Life? (1:25:35) What Will Psychology Unravel Next? (1:27:42) Where to Find Paul

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