How To Deal With Being Anxiously Attached - Jessica Baum - #489

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06/20/22

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Jessica Baum is a Licensed Mental Health Counsellor, Relationship Expert and an author.

Attachment styles have become a hot topic recently, they underpin much of why we behave the way we do in relationships. Anxious attachment can be a serious challenge to overcome and gets in the way of everything, so working out how to defeat these dating demons is an important insight to uncover.

Expect to learn what the science is behind attachment styles, why anxious attachment develops, whether you can fix your attachment style while you're single, how to communicate with an anxiously attached partner more effectively, how to control your body and mind if you feel anxious, why Love Island's promo photos aren't that bad and much more...

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro (00:32) How Social Media Misrepresents People (05:55) Jessica’s Work Background (09:35) Impact of Upbringing on Attachment (20:46) Beginning to Understand Attachment (29:56) Attachment Differences in Men & Women (39:29) Healing Attachment Issues (48:34) Practical Strategies to Calm Anxiety (56:52) Exploring Past Traumas (1:10:46) Harsh Truth of Attachment Anxiety (1:22:48) Where to Find Jessica

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June 18, 2022

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Nick Bare is the founder of Bare Performance Nutrition, an endurance racer, YouTuber and a podcaster.

Being consistently good will beat being occasionally great. But consistency is hard to find when life throws setbacks, business failures, injuries and babies at you. However, Nick has found a way to balance everything and today we get to discover how.

Expect to learn why doubters shouldn't affect your performance, why Go One More is a useful rule for everything in life, how Nick avoids burnout when juggling lots of projects, where the drive to get up at 5am every day comes from, how gut instinct can beat brain-power and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (00:43) Nick’s Marathon Progress (08:46) Preparations for Fatherhood (14:04) Choose What to Suck At (18:29) How to Avoid Burnout (22:18) Hiring the Right People (34:15) Framework for Being Consistent (41:04) Modern Definition of Success (49:16) Consistency in Hard Times (1:02:40) Define Personal Success (1:08:14) Moving Towards Intentional Parenting (1:18:18) The Price Paid for Success (1:23:41) Where to Find Nick

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Alex and Leila Hormozi are founders of Acquisition.com, entrepreneurs, podcasters and authors.

The last 18 months has seen Alex & Leila burst onto the business advice scene like pretty much no one else. Alex's book has been one of the wildest successes of the last decade and yet they made $100m before having any social media presence. Getting to dig into their philosophies around life, business, dating and productivity makes for a very interesting story.

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