Hinge's Relationship Scientist Gives Dating Advice - Logan Ury - #457

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04/07/22

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Logan Ury is the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, a Harvard-trained behavioural scientist and an author.

Modern dating is difficult. Thankfully Logan has access to all the data from Hinge and can conduct as many studies as she wants on trends and preferences from thousands of people in and out of relationships.

Expect to learn why an intentional approach to dating seems like a turn-off but is a very smart strategy, why you should start looking to settle down after dating 30% of your partners, what the data tells us are the most important rules for constructing a successful dating profile, why chasing The Spark is a recipe for disaster, how to break up with someone, how to get over heartbreak and much more...

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro (00:30) Being Hinge’s Relationship Scientist (05:48) Impact of Surveillance on Dating (12:11) Boomers, Millennials & Gen Z (18:15) Intentional Dating (28:47) Making Better Dating Decisions (37:04) Personal Dating Tendencies (43:32) How to Succeed at Online Dating (51:17) Logan’s Issue with ‘The Spark’ (1:02:07) Knowing When to Break Up with Someone (1:11:54) Where to Find Logan

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The Psychological Power Of Expectations - David Robson - #456

April 4, 2022

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David Robson is an award-winning science writer specialising in the extremes of the human brain, body and behaviour.

Our expectations have a profound effect on the outcomes we get in life. This isn't positive vibes from The Secret, this is one of the most replicable, robust effects that impacts pretty much everything we care about to do with our lives and health.

Expect to learn how people with no gluten intolerance can have a gluten reaction after eating a meal with no gluten in it, why the drones at Gatwick were probably imagined, why French people eat worse than Americans but live longer, how your thoughts are more important than your genes when it comes to athletic performance and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (01:26) Expectation Effect & Placebo Effect (07:33) How the Mind Imitates Illness (16:19) Applying the Placebo Effect (27:40) Expectation Effect on Sleep & Ageing (33:49) Why Do These Effects Exist? (41:26) Does Willpower Deplete? (51:38) Contagious Expectations (58:44) Applying the Expectation Effect (1:04:41) Where to Find David

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Fighting The World Of Fake Martial Arts - Phrost - #458

April 9, 2022

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Phrost is Editor at Bullshido and a podcaster.

The introduction of MMA and the UFC has been the ultimate stress test for fake martial arts. No-touch knockouts and chi-push energy blasts have been arm barred and head kicked out of existence. Yet the ability to detect and defeat BS, whether physical, martial or conceptual is no less useful.

Expect to learn whether Will Smith should have swung harder, Phrost's justification for why you should always get into online arguments, the most ridiculous martial arts which were disproved, what it was like to create a real life Fight Club, how hard Steven Seagal actually was, whether everyone should learn to fight and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (00:29) Will Smith Oscars Slap (10:14) Real-life Fight Club (14:15) Forms of Martial Art (20:08) Importance of Learning to Fight (29:36) Engaging in Online Arguments (34:17) The Steven Seagal Story (40:08) Investigating Chiropractors (47:39) Trust in Mainstream Medicine for Recovery (59:28) Where to Find Phrost

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