Does Anyone Care About Male Loneliness? - Max Dickins - #511

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08/11/22

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Max Dickins is a comedian, writer and a mental health advocate.

Loneliness is as dangerous as smoking. And men are suffering worse than ever. This is bad for them, it's bad for their partners, it's bad for their employers, their children and society at large. Men are struggling to toe the line between manning up and opening up and many of them are doing neither.

Expect to learn what Max learned from having no best man to choose for his wedding, how men's loneliness differs from female loneliness, the evolutionary explanation for shallower male friendships, how being in a shed can help you bond, why contributing to a project and doing things is crucial for bonding amongst men, whether the manosphere is helping and much more...

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro (02:43) Difference Between Man Up & Open Up (08:48) Why is Male Loneliness Unique? (19:49) Fundamentals of Friendship (25:56) How Treatment for Men & Women Should be Different (33:24) Defining Masculinity (40:21) Is this a British Problem? (50:55) Emotional Labour & Marriage (57:52) Importance of Bonding Through Doing Things (1:06:29) Max’s Thoughts on the Manosphere (1:14:07) How to Prevent Male Loneliness (1:16:45) Where to Find Max

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August 8, 2022

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Zack Telander is a weightlifter, coach & YouTuber.

More serious problems are afoot. The number of men using viagra is at al time highs, BatGirl has been cancelled, Beyonce has become an ableist abuser, a basketball star gets jailed in Russia and TikTokers are wearing blasphemous bikinis. Obviously, me and Zack must fix all of this.

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(00:00) Intro (01:55) Brittney Griner’s Sentence (09:59) Why Young Men are Turning to Viagra (22:59) Addison Rae’s Blasphemous Bikini (26:50) Demi Lovato’s Updated Pronouns (33:39) Heated, Ableist Beyoncé Lyrics (42:25) The Harsh Future of Outrage Culture (52:35) Batgirl Movie Scrapped (1:06:50) Where to Find Zack

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Will MacAskill is a philosopher, ethicist, and one of the originators of the Effective Altruism movement.

Humans understand that long term thinking is a good idea, that we need to provide a good place for future generations to live. We try to leave the world better than when we arrived for this very reason. But what about the world in one hundred thousand years? Or 8 billion? If there's trillions of human lives still to come, how should that change the way we act right now?

Expect to learn why we're living through a particularly crucial time in the history of the future, the dangers of locking in any set of values, how to avoid the future being ruled by a malevolent dictator, whether the world has too many or too few people on it, how likely a global civilisational collapse is, why technological stagnation is a death sentence and much more...

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(00:00) Intro (00:25) Introduction to Long-Termism (07:35) Why Our Present Choices Matter (15:13) Possible Futures of Technology & Morals (23:49) Will’s Problem with ‘Happy Birthday’ (34:35) Preventing Human Extinction (42:50) Is Earth Over-Populated? (48:25) Risks of Technological Stagnation (59:17) The Current Focus on Climate Change (1:07:19) Extinction Vs Collapse (1:22:04) Our Goal for the Future of Humanity (1:31:42) Where to Find Will

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