Deeply Connected Relationships - Gay Hendricks - #983
Modern Wisdom
08/21/25
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Gay Hendricks is a psychologist, teacher, and an author renowned for his work on relationship transformation.
Conscious loving is about more than just romance, it’s about clarity, commitment, and growth. With endless advice on the internet on how to optimize your love life, what if the real answer is aligning your expectations and evolving together?
Expect to learn what conscious loving is and the difference from unconscious loving, why its important to feel your feeling and tell the truth in a relationship, what good commitment looks like, how to be more proactively benevolent in their relationship and stop “keeping score” in a culture that constantly teaches people to expect the even 50/50 split every level, what co-commitment is and the steps to building a co-commitment relationship, and much more...
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(0:00) The Key to Conscious Loving
(12:54) 10 Seconds of Sweaty Conversation
(16:02) Why You Should Be Truthful in a Relationship
(21:54) What are the Main Practical Obstacles in a Relationship?
(26:43) Creating a Safe Environment to Receive Truth
(37:41) Navigating Your Sense of Self in Conscious Relationships
(46:40) What is Co-Commitment?
(58:47) Breaking the Victimhood Pattern
(01:06:25) Men and Women Bring Different Things to the Table
(01:15:45) You are the Common Denominator in Your Life
(01:27:02) Find Out More About Gay
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UFOs, Aliens, Antigravity & Government Secrets - Jesse Michels - #982
August 18, 2025
•130m
Jesse Michels is a YouTuber and show host, exploring subjects like UFOs, consciousness, and reality.
For nearly a century, UFOs have captured our imagination as one of humanity’s greatest mysteries. Are they secret technology, alien visitors, or something else entirely? Who is behind them, what has been concealed, and what has been revealed about them? After decades of unanswered questions, are we any closer to uncovering the truth about these unknown objects in the sky?
Expect to learn why learning about UFOs is maladaptive to some people, how we know if UFOs are real or just a psy-op, if there are underground hidden bases with aliens scattered across the US, the connection with UFO sightings and nuclear sites, if UFOs might be just man made crafts or if there are other unknown technologies at play, if there is any evidence for antigravity currently and where it might come from, and much more...
Timestamps:
(0:00) Why is an Interest in UFOs Maladaptive?
(1:36) What Does a Modern UFO Investigator Look Like?
(12:03) Why is There So Little Evidence of UFOs?
(20:24) How Do We Know UFOs Aren’t a PSYOP?
(27:47) Are UFOs a Global Phenomenon?
(29:28) The Threat of Nuclear Sites
(35:57) Why are Non-Human Intelligences on Earth?
(38:56) Nuclear Site Interference by UFOs
(46:56) Are the Department of Energy Involved?
(55:58) How Far Can Civilians Go With UFO Research?
(01:00:19) What Physics are Behind UFOs?
(01:10:36) Where are We Currently in Physics?
(01:16:25) Why Was Townsend Brown’s Experiment Never Replicated?
(01:23:01) Why are Renegade Scientists So Highly Criticised?
(01:37:02) Where Elon Musk is Going Wrong with Space Exploration
(01:43:15) Are We Heading Towards an AI Takeover?
(01:48:40) Assessing the Probabilities of Non-Human Intelligence
(01:53:23) Consciousness in Quantum Physics
(02:09:37) Find Out More About Jesse
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Why We’re Drawn to Death, Crime, & Danger - Coltan Scrivner - #984
August 23, 2025
•66m
Coltan Scrivner is a behavioral scientist, an expert on morbid curiosity in horror and true‐crime media, and an author.
Why are humans so curious about death? From car accidents to scary stories, roller coasters, and horror movies, some people are fascinated while others are repulsed. What draws us toward the very things we should naturally want to avoid?
Expect to learn why humans are drawn to dark or morbid content and the evolutionary logic behind watching something that disturbs us, why there is a gender gap of who is more interested in morbid curiosity, why some people find serial killers fascinating while others are repulsed, the biggest differences between terror and horror & the connection between disgust and fascination, what horror can teach us about emotional self-regulation, and much more...
Timestamps:
(0:00) Why are We Drawn to Dark Content?
(7:20) The 4 Domains of Morbid Curiosity
(15:25) Morbid Curiosity in Evolution
(22:51) Individual Difference in Morbid Curiosity
(34:05) What is So Attractive About Serial Killers?
(37:46) Why are Certain Groups Attracted to Certain Types of Morbid Content?
(47:17) The Perfect Ingredients for a Horror Movie
(57:14) Why is There Increasing Desensitisation to Morbid Content?
(01:02:59) Find Out More About Colton
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