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17 Ugly Psychology Truths No One Wants To Admit - Adam Lane Smith - #674

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08/31/23

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Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist and an author.

Adam has helped thousands of patients and couples to deal with problems from childhood, their relationships and their sex lives. He also writes amazing Twitter threads filled with insights from his time as a therapist and today we get to go through some of my favourites.

Expect to learn why having sex with a man on the first date won't make him fall in love with you, why it shouldn't be a surprise to most men when their partner divorces them, the psychological effect of relying on daycare for newborn babies, why men don't understand how female communication works, whether love or respect is more important in a relationship and much more...

Timestamps:

(00:00) Should Women Have Sex on the First Date? (07:06) People Who Are Obsessed with Politics are Messy & Unhappy (11:16) The Danger of Avoiding Uncomfortable Conversations (17:36) How Our Relationships Are Being Systematically Destroyed (24:18) Both Men & Women Hate the Dating Scene (30:49) The Key to Protecting Your Marriage from Divorce (34:36) Why Men Are Demonised in Marriage Therapy (41:21) The Disadvantages of Sending Your Baby to Daycare (47:01) Most Men Don’t Understand Female Communication (52:10) The Difference in Perspectives of Past Romantic History (57:41) Do Men Want Respect More Than Love? (1:01:06) The World Doesn’t Want Men to Have Any Power (1:12:33) If You Love Your Children, You’d Let them See Your Separated Partner (1:16:19) Why Nice Guys Finish Last (1:22:17) Where to Find Adam

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Phil Heath is a professional bodybuilder, 7-time Mr. Olympia winner, entrepreneur and an author.

Phil Heath is one of the greatest and most dominant bodybuilders of all time. But what does it take to win Mr Olympia for 7 consecutive years and just what are the inner workings of his mind that led him to success?

Expect to learn Phil’s reflections on his rivalry with Kai Greene, what it was like being a part of the Generation Iron documentary, how to improve your relationship with pain, how to conquer small impulses, why Phil used far fewer PEDs than everyone thinks, his 10 best exercises for building muscle, what he thinks of Chris Bumstead, his opinion on the current field of Olympia competitors and much more...⁣

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Where Phil’s Name ‘The Gift’ Came From (02:46) How Phil Developed Bulletproof Self-Belief (06:26) The Inspiring Lessons Phil Learned From His First Show (15:08) The Importance of Giving Yourself Permission to Be You (22:47) Do You Really Want High Standards or Pity? (28:22) Phil’s Relationship With Pain (37:35) The Experience of Filming Generation Iron (46:20) Phil’s Rivalry with Kai Greene (1:02:42) What Does Phil Think of Chris Bumstead? (1:09:24) Explaining the Use of Drugs & Longevity in Bodybuilding (1:20:58) Why Phil Won’t Use Tren or Insulin (1:30:27) The Key to Phil’s Successful Training (1:37:31) If Phil Could Only Do 10 Exercises for the Rest of His Life (1:47:12) How Being an Only Child Impacted Phil’s Career (1:50:05) The Impact of Reverse Role Models (1:58:10) How Influential is Chance in Avoiding Life’s Pitfalls (2:05:50) Where to Find Phil

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Episodes You Might Enjoy:

This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠

How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠

The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠

Get in touch.

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Niall Ferguson is a historian, senior fellow at the Hoover Institution & Stanford University and an author.

We often hear that history tends to repeat itself. But if you're a professional historian, just how accurate is that statement? What are the big lessons that we keep missing? And how doomed is our future if we don’t learn from the past?

Expect to learn Niall's opinion on the quote “History Doesn’t Repeat Itself, but It Often Rhymes”, why everyone should read more history, the biggest lessons most people keep ignoring, why the modern abandonment of formal education for smart people is actually a good thing, just how big of a threat China is to the West, what Niall thinks will happen in America in 2024 and much more...

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(00:00) Are There Patterns to History? (08:51) If History Can’t Be Repeated, is it Just BS? (17:54) Why You Shouldn’t Compare Great Historical Empires (23:10) How To Learn from History More Effectively (30:18) How the Printing Press Created the Information Revolution (36:58) Areas of History We Don’t Know Enough About (48:00) Niall’s Thoughts on the 2024 Presidential Election (57:32) Where to Find Niall Ferguson

Extra Stuff:

Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/

To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom

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Episodes You Might Enjoy:

This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠

How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠

The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠

Get in touch.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx

Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast

Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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