
What Is Gaslighting? A Personal Story of Domestic Violence with Deborah Griffiths
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02/06/25
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What is Gaslighting? This is a personal story of domestic violence and becoming a survivor.
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In this powerful episode, host Julie Lokun sits down with author and domestic abuse survivor Deborah Griffiths to discuss her journey from an abusive marriage to helping others find their strength. Deborah shares her raw and honest story of experiencing gaslighting and psychological manipulation during her 17.5-year marriage, eventually leading to a suicide attempt that became her wake-up call to make changes.
Learn more about Deborah: www.brokentoboldness.com
Key Topics Discussed:
- Understanding gaslighting and psychological manipulation in relationships
- Recognizing early warning signs of abuse and controlling behavior
- The impact of isolation tactics used by abusers
- Breaking free from abusive relationships and starting over
- Finding strength through faith and family support
- The importance of trusting your instincts
Resources Mentioned:
- Deborah's Website: www.brokentoboldness.com
- Deborah's Book: "Torched"
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please reach out for help. You are not alone.
Guest Bio: Deborah Griffiths is an author and advocate who helps others move from broken to boldness after experiencing domestic abuse. Through her work at Broken to Boldness, she provides support and resources to those looking to rebuild their lives after abuse.
Connect with the Show: Host: Julie Lokun (she/her) Guest: Deborah Griffiths (she/her)
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Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, psychological abuse, and suicide.
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