Obsessed with The Secrets We Keep ft. Charlie Cifarelli

Get Obsessed : With Living Your Best Life

08/04/22

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We are constantly evolving and growing day by day. We face many challenges and obstacles in our lives, and sometimes it can feel like we're just trying to survive.

It's been said that we all have two lives. The first life is the one we live until we realize we have a second life. The second life is the one we live after discovering our purpose to lead a fulfilling life.

For our guest Charlie Cifarelli, he found his purpose in life through a viral video of a homeless man's companion named Star, who was shot by the New York Police Department.

Through Star, Charlie is able to live his second life where he pursues justice and truth as well as valuing compassion, empathy, understanding, and humanity. In this episode, we'll hear about his story and mission to help others, especially through his book 14th & 2nd.

From Long Island, life dealt Charlie a difficult hand early on. He was born in a position not to succeed and lived a lifetime of secrecy. He worked hard and found success by rising through the ranks in the Nebraska Department of Correctional Services and then starting his own successful business. In addition, Charlie is also the co-founder of a nonprofit organization, a sought-after speaker at various business and social awareness functions, and has been featured in the media regarding animal advocacy.

What You Will Learn From This Episode

01:52 - What Charlie Cifarelli is obsessed with

02:23 - Living a lifetime of secrecy and writing a book

08:27 - Finding his purpose in life through Star

14:11 - How Star taught Charlie how to be a human being

20:13 - Finding your path moving forward and living in gratitude

26:19 - Force does not create peace

28:10 - Living a minimalist life and ditching the all-or-nothing mentality

Resources Mentioned

Star’s story: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Star_(dog)
(Book) 14th & 2nd by Charlie Cifarelli: https://www.amazon.com/14th-2nd-Charlie-Cifarelli/dp/B0B1CJWXF9

Connect with Charlie Cifarelli

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlie_cifarelli_
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlesccifarelli/
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/charlie_cifarelli_

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Get Obsessed with us. Collectively we are a nutritionist, a master certified life coach, an attorney, and a self-esteem expert. We dive into topics that uncover the essence of the human experience. Our stories are one of kicking fear in the face and taking a leap of faith.

We are equally obsessed with the works of Brene Brown and are inspired to study and understand the 30 core emotions. Each week we will explore another emotion, talk to experts in their field and inspire you to live the life you are meant to be living.

We are Julie Lokun, JD, Tia Morell Walden, Certified Holistic Nutritionist, and Mika Altidor, Certified Life Coach. Join us for the conversation, and more importantly be a part of the conversation. Reach out with a question or comment about an episode or suggest a personal development topic you are obsessed with. After all, the Obsessed Podcast is for you and about you.

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Obsessed With Energy Vampires featuring Julie Lokun

July 30, 2022

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Energy Vampires are everywhere. They take and take and take and you are left depleted and exhausted. Today is the day you start saying no to the energy vampires in your lives. You need to take the reigns of your energy and reach out to get poured into it.

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What is an energy vampire? How can you recognize one? Relationships are always an energy exchange. Accoriding to Dr. Judith Orloff, to stay feeling our best, we must ask ourselves: Who gives us energy? Who saps it? It’s important to be surrounded by supportive, heart-centered people who make us feel safe and secure. It’s equally important to pinpoint the energy vampires, who, whether they intend to or not, leech our energy.

Positive energy in others can be rejuvenating. For instance, you’re nervous about a job interview, but the minute you meet your prospective boss you relax. He’s so calm and welcoming, you calm down too. Or perhaps you have a good friend around whom you always feel loved. These energy-givers are people to treasure. The more you surround yourself with positive people, the more you will attract them. In your life, these are people you must gravitate towards. Having a circle of positive people around you can also repel energy vampires. Positive attracts positive. Negative attracts negative. So, your conscious actions in choosing relationships can make a huge difference in your energy level and the quality of your life!

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Obsessed with Understanding Parental Alienation and The Aftermath of A Bad Divorce ft. G. Mick Smith and Kindra Beck

August 11, 2022

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38m

When a marriage breaks down, it can be hard on everyone involved. But, when children are caught in the middle, it can be even more challenging. Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse that can happen during a divorce. It occurs when one parent tries to turn the child against the other parent.

It can be hard to know what to do when your child is being alienated from you. You may feel like you are walking on eggshells all the time. Or you may feel like you are exhausting all your options to try to reach your child. In addition, this can have a profound and lasting impact on the child, leading to emotional damage that can last well into adulthood.

If you are going through a divorce, it is essential to be aware of parental alienation and its potential effects on your children. In this episode, we will explore, together with our guests Kindra Beck and G. Mick Smith, the realities of parental alienation. Kindra and Mick have seen firsthand the devastating effects of parental alienation.

Kindra, a proud mom of two boys, is a legislative pioneer trying to change the landscape of parental alienation in addition to being a life coach, motivational speaker, and an experienced marketer and sales leader. Mick plays at the intersection of education, training, and technology. He is the author of 'Burning America: In The Best Interest Of The Children?', a fictional account that delves into the dark trenches of the custody industry in American villages.

What You Will Learn From This Episode

02:55 - What G. Mick Smith is obsessed with

07:04 - Kindra’s struggle with parental alienation

14:29 - How parental alienation can affect children

20:16 - Mick’s child custody battle

23:26 - The court system and thinking about what's best for your child

26:27 - Grappling with the effects of parental alienation

31:41 - Helping yourself get through the pain and effects

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