David Toborowsky and Annie Suwan on Love and Life After 90 Day Fiancé
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06/30/26
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In this episode of the Get Obsessed podcast, David Toborowsky and Annie Suwan of 90 Day Fiancé join Julie Lokun and Mika Altidor for a candid 90 Day Fiancé cast interview about love, resilience, family, and the realities of life beyond reality television.
From their unconventional beginning to becoming one of the most recognizable couples in the franchise, David and Annie share the experiences that shaped their relationship both on and off screen.
The conversation explores the challenges and rewards of cross-cultural marriage, navigating public scrutiny as TLC reality TV personalities, and overcoming the doubts that surrounded their relationship from the very beginning. David and Annie also open up about their IVF journey, becoming parents later in life, raising their daughter in Thailand, and the lessons they have learned about commitment, growth, and staying connected through every stage of life after 90 Day Fiancé.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Building a lasting relationship despite cultural differences and early challenges
- Life in Thailand and the lifestyle changes that came after leaving the United States
- Looking back at their difficult beginnings on 90 Day Fiancé and the doubts surrounding their relationship
- The realities of fame, online criticism, and living life in the public eye
- Sharing their IVF journey and becoming parents later in life
- Why they continue sharing their lives with fans and the impact of the 90 Day Fiancé community
- Parenthood, future family plans, and building a life together beyond 90 Day Fiancé
ABOUT THE GUESTS:
David Toborowsky and Annie Suwan are best known for their appearances on TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, where viewers followed their international love story from Thailand to the United States. Despite skepticism surrounding their age difference, financial struggles, and cultural differences, they became one of the franchise's most beloved and enduring couples.
Since their debut, David and Annie have appeared across the 90 Day Fiancé universe, including Pillow Talk and David & Annie: After the 90 Days. Today, they share their experiences with marriage, family, travel, and parenthood while raising their daughter, Minthira, and splitting their time between Thailand and the United States.
MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE:
- (Video) David and Annie's 90 Day Fiancé Episode - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUjEDGI2kTM
- Website: https://david-annie.com/ & https://cookingwithdna.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Real.DavidandAnnie.page/
- David’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toborowsky_david/
- Annie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annie_suwan_toborowsky/
- Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@toborowsky_david
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In this episode of the Get Obsessed podcast, Dr. Robert Epstein, psychologist, author, and Senior Research Psychologist at the American Institute for Behavioral Research and Technology, joins hosts Julie Lokun and Mika Altidor to discuss the growing influence of Google and other technology companies on privacy, behavior, and society.
Drawing from years of research, congressional testimony, and investigations into online manipulation, Dr. Epstein explains how search engines, online surveillance, and algorithmic systems can shape decisions without users realizing it. The conversation explores digital hygiene, election interference, artificial intelligence (AI), internet addiction, and practical ways individuals can protect their data privacy in an increasingly connected world.
In this episode, we discuss:
- How Dr. Epstein's research initially showed Google's unexpected power to shift voters
- Why Google's reach extends far beyond search and what that means for everyday users
- Practical digital hygiene habits and tools that can help protect privacy online
- Research showing how search results can influence opinions, decisions, and elections
- How phones, smart devices, and connected technology contribute to online surveillance
- Why artificial intelligence may increase the power of tech companies to monitor and influence behavior
- Concerns about children, internet addiction, AI-generated content, and the future of digital autonomy
ABOUT THE GUEST:
Dr. Robert Epstein is an author, editor, professor, and Senior Research Psychologist at the American Institute for Behavioral Research and Technology. A former Editor in Chief of Psychology Today, he has spent decades researching human behavior, technology, and online influence.
He earned his PhD in psychology from Harvard University and is the founder and Director Emeritus of the Cambridge Center for Behavioral Studies. His research has appeared in Science, Nature, and the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, and he is widely known for identifying the Search Engine Manipulation Effect (SEME), which explores how search rankings can influence opinions and voting behavior.
Dr. Epstein has testified before the United States Congress on election interference, Big Tech influence, and digital manipulation. He has authored or edited 15 books and has appeared on major media platforms including The Joe Rogan Experience, NPR, Voice of America, and SiriusXM.
MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE:
- (Podcast) The Joe Rogan Experience featuring Dr. Robert Epstein (2022) - https://EpsteinOnRogan.com
- (Podcast) The Joe Rogan Experience featuring Dr. Robert Epstein (2023) - https://EpsteinOnRogan2.com
- (Video) Dr. Epstein's 2023 Congressional Testimony - https://2023EpsteinTestimony.com
- (Video) Dr. Epstein's 2019 Congressional Testimony - https://EpsteinTestimony.com
- (Website) My Digital Hygiene - https://MyDigitalHygiene.com
- (Website) America's Digital Shield - https://americasdigitalshield.com/
- (Website) My Privacy Tips - https://myprivacytips.com/
- (Website) Epstein Addiction Inventory - https://areyouaddicted.org/
- Website: https://drrobertepstein.com/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrREpstein
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-epstein-drrepstein-0658b2/
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Meet the country star who is singing the anthem for single girls everywhere! Today we're getting obsessed with rising country star Maddye Trew — a Memphis-born singer-songwriter whose voice is as bold as her spirit.
From her roots in Memphis to her journey to Nashville, Maddye brings heart, humor, and honesty to her music. Her breakout banger — "Single of the Year" — is not just a song. It's an anthem for single women everywhere: raising a glass, owning independence, and celebrating life with a beer in hand instead of wallowing over a broken heart.
But Maddye's road wasn't all smooth. She once stood face-to-face with superstar diva Mariah Carey during an American Idol audition — a moment that could have shattered any young artist's dream. Instead, she used that rejection as rocket fuel.
In This Episode We Talk About:
- How to reclaim your narrative and transform rejection into resilience
- The story behind "Single of the Year" — how it captures a generation of women navigating singleness and waiting
- Why being 30, single, and unapologetically chasing a music dream is powerful — and how the need for control plays into it
- Maddye's musical influences, including Carrie Underwood, Loretta Lynn, and the traditional country lineage she honors
- The importance of mentorship, giving back, and being the person you once needed to meet
- What's next: her new EP Here Goes Nothing (coming 2026) and how to follow her journey at maddyetrew.com
Key Takeaways:
- You don't have to be defined by your relationship status — raise your glass, tie one on, and toast your independence
- What often looks like "falling behind" (friends getting married, society ticking boxes) can actually be your runway
- In music, as in life, the mindset shift from "talent-show contestant" to professional artist changes everything
- Mentorship and paying it forward matters — Maddye isn't just chasing a dream in Nashville, she's returning to her high school to encourage the next generation
- Being single isn't a pause; it can be a season of empowerment, growth, and the lead-in to bigger things
Learn More About Maddye Trew:
- Website: www.maddyetrew.com
- Listen to "Single of the Year" on Spotify
- Follow Maddye on Instagram: @maddyetrew
If you're navigating fears around control, waiting, or career vs. personal life, this episode is for you — share it with the "singledom" warriors in your life!
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Hosted by Julie Lokun, JD and Mika Altidor, Get Obsessed is a globally acclaimed podcast that dives deep into transformation, resilience, and the human spirit. Each episode spotlights bold thinkers, change-makers, and survivors who turn adversity into advantage. Whether you're obsessed with self-growth, mental wellness, or real-life comeback stories, this is your weekly dose of empowerment.
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