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Aging, Menopause and The Invisible Woman Syndrome Explained with Julie Lokun

Get Obsessed : With Living Your Best Life

04/26/24

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t 45, it is said, women begin to loose a marketable quality in relationships and in their careers. The number 45 has become the demarcation between youthful vigor and gradual decline. The Invisible Woman Syndrome pinpoints this year as the marker of when we start to see the affects of aging and slowly fade into the corner.

On February 2nd, 2020 it was a sequin studded moment of happenstance that the Invisible Woman Syndrome was graced with a new poster child. It was with choreographed precision produced by the Jennifer Lopez Team that millions gasped and knew our half-time as women could not be ignored. , Her performance was a prolific statement oozing in decadence and packaged with jaw dropping sexual bravado. J.LO orbited the pole on Super Bowl Sunday to be met with quiet admiration from ladies like myself as we witnessed a tiny crack in the collective attitude towards aging.

With a leader like Jennifer Lopez at the helm we are equally bombarded with counter intuitive messages that our 50's shall be relegated to a space of decreased sexual appeal, decreased professional importance and a rapid influx of health issues . And leading the way are advertisers like Osteo Bi-Flex. @ostebi-flex #osteobiflex

Marketing our Invisibility to the Masses. How 52 is marketed by Osteo Bi-Flex:

She is the main character in an advertisement for a joint relief supplement (pictured above). She is visibly aged with long grey hair and costumed in an evergreen uniform of khakis and a practical cardigan. With the numbers 52 blazing on the screen you become acutely aware that this number represents the effort of a major corporation who capitalizes on further propagating the stereotype of the Invisible Woman. To be fair, this 52 year old woman looks happy- relishing her spinsterhood. However, behind the smile is a dedicated marketing machine pedaling a message of mid-century malaise. It is a message that has been solidified and sold to the masses that our relevance in society diminishes at a rapid rate as we enter our fifth decade.

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As Conti shares her firsthand encounters with Gacy, listeners are drawn into the enigmatic and horrifying persona of one of America's most notorious murderers. Gacy's sinister charm and manipulative tactics are dissected as Conti recounts the complexities of defending a man responsible for the deaths of over 30 young men and boys.

Throughout the episode, Conti's unwavering determination to uncover the truth and seek justice shines through. Despite the overwhelming evidence against Gacy, she tirelessly worked to ensure that every legal avenue was explored in her efforts to save her client from the ultimate punishment.

But beyond the courtroom drama, Conti and the hosts also delve into the lasting impact of Gacy's legacy. His crimes not only devastated the lives of his victims and their families but also left an indelible mark on society's perception of serial killers and the criminal justice system as a whole.

Through Conti's candid reflections and expert insights, listeners are challenged to confront the uncomfortable truths surrounding Gacy's crimes and the profound effects they continue to have on the collective psyche.

This episode serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of vigilance in the face of evil and the enduring quest for justice in the wake of tragedy. Karen Conti's remarkable journey as Gacy's last defense attorney offers a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit in the pursuit of truth and redemption.

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Get Obsessed with us. Collectively we are a nutritionist, a master certified life coach, an attorney, and a self-esteem expert. We dive into topics that uncover the essence of the human experience. Our stories are one of kicking fear in the face and taking a leap of faith.

We are equally obsessed with the works of Brene Brown and are inspired to study and understand the 30 core emotions. Each week we will explore another emotion, talk to experts in their field and inspire you to live the life you are meant to be living.

We are Julie Lokun, JD, Tia Morell Walden, Certified Holistic Nutritionist, and Mika Altidor, Certified Life Coach. Join us for the conversation, and more importantly be a part of the conversation. Reach out with a question or comment about an episode or suggest a personal development topic you are obsessed with. After all, the Obsessed Podcast is for you and about you.

Learn More About Your Hosts: Here

For More About Julie Lokun Check Her Out: Here

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In a world where perfectionism whispers its seductive promises of fulfillment, Glennon Doyle's "Untamed" serves as a beacon of liberation. With unapologetic honesty, Doyle invites us to shed the shackles of societal expectations and embrace our raw, untamed selves. Through her poignant prose, she illuminates the transformative power of letting go of the illusion of who we're supposed to be, and instead, embracing who we truly are. In the pages of "Untamed," Doyle emboldens us to confront our fears, challenge the status quo, and forge our own paths toward authenticity. It's a rallying cry for self-discovery and a celebration of the messy, imperfect beauty that lies within each of us. So let's dare to release the grip of perfectionism and embark on a journey of self-love and acceptance alongside Glennon Doyle, finding solace and inspiration in the pages of "Untamed."

Releasing perfectionism can be a liberating journey toward self-acceptance and growth. Here are some tips to help you let go of the relentless pursuit of perfection:

  1. Set realistic expectations: Recognize that perfection is an unattainable standard. Instead, aim for progress and improvement rather than flawless execution.
  2. Challenge perfectionistic thoughts: Notice when you're setting impossibly high standards for yourself and question the validity of those standards. Ask yourself if they're truly necessary or if they're rooted in fear or self-doubt.
  3. Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, especially when you make mistakes or fall short of your expectations. Remember that you're only human, and imperfection is part of the human experience.
  4. Focus on the process, not just the outcome: Embrace the journey of learning and growing, rather than fixating solely on the end result. Celebrate your efforts and progress along the way.
  5. Embrace imperfection: Allow yourself to make mistakes and embrace imperfection as a natural part of life. Remember that mistakes are opportunities for learning and growth.
  6. Reframe failure: Shift your perspective on failure from something to be feared or avoided to something that offers valuable lessons and insights. View setbacks as stepping stones toward success rather than evidence of inadequacy.
  7. Set boundaries: Learn to say no to unrealistic demands and prioritize self-care. Establishing boundaries can help prevent burnout and overwhelm, allowing you to focus on what truly matters.
  8. Seek support: Surround yourself with supportive friends, family, or a therapist who can offer encouragement and perspective as you work on releasing perfectionism.
  9. Practice mindfulness: Cultivate present moment awareness through practices like meditation or deep breathing exercises. Mindfulness can help you let go of perfectionistic tendencies and cultivate greater acceptance of yourself and your experiences.
  10. Celebrate progress: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Recognize that progress is more important than perfection, and every step forward is a reason to celebrate.

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Join us as we interview thought leaders like Gary Vaynerchuk, Evan Carmichael, Dr. Laura Berman and MORE!

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We are Julie Lokun, JD, Tia Morell Walden, Ce


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