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Don't Mom Alone Podcast - Manage Your Life with Guilt-Free Confidence Christy Wright Ep 192
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Manage Your Life with Guilt-Free Confidence Christy Wright Ep 192

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

02/05/18

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Get ready for a huge pep talk from one of today’s biggest business personalities, Christy Wright. She shares some of her story and a whole lot of encouragement for women whether you own a business or not.

If you struggle with guilt for taking time for yourself or prioritizing your time and saying no, Christy gives wisdom and practical advice to help you reframe your situation and move forward with confidence and kindness.

What we chat about:
  • Christy’s story of growing up with a single working mom who owned a business.
  • Letting go of mom guilt and looking at time away from our kids as healthy and necessary.
  • One of the most powerful things you can show your kids is how you take care of yourself.
  • Never say anything about yourself that you don’t want your kids to say about themselves.
  • Getting on the same page with your spouse about taking time away.
  • Decision making paradigm shift and protecting your time.
  • How to say “no” with confidence and kindness.
  • Prioritizing your time around your goals, family and what you enjoy.
  • An honest ‘no’ is better than a dishonest ‘yes’.
  • The imposter syndrome and how it impacts women and high achievers.
  • Take the first step even when you are fearful and it will start momentum to do even bigger things.
  • Making baby steps to move out of a “stuck” place.

Questions to ask to help identify your strengths:

  1. What do you enjoy?
  2. What is effortless for you?
  3. Where do you excel in relation to others?
  4. What do others encourage in you?
  5. What gives you energy?
“Business Boutique”**: Links Mentioned:

Previous Episode

When she got married, Jamie Ivey became a pastor’s wife. Stepping into this role made her feel there was no one who she could be fully open with about her past. But, keeping these secrets kept her in shame and insecurity.

In her new book, If You Only Knew**, she shares how opening up about her past revealed the beauty of God’s grace in her life and about the freedom it has brought her and others.

(If you want to hear my “If You Only Knew” story about anxiety and anger, check it out over on Jamie’s “The Happy Hour” podcast.)

What we chat about:
  • Jamie Ivey’s story reconciling her past with her Christian walk.
  • How sharing your story can show the beauty of God’s grace and redemption.
  • Examining our underlying motivation for decisions.
  • We are not in control of our kids’ salvation and that is a good thing!
  • How to find a friend who is safe to share your full story with and how to be that type of friend.
  • We can have compassion for the broken when we realize that it’s only by the grace of God we haven’t made bigger mistakes.
  • Bringing discipline with your kids back around to the Gospel because that’s where the freedom lies.
  • The importance of community and allowing others to speak truth into our lives when we fall into places of shame and guilt.
  • God sees the righteousness of Jesus and not our shame when he looks at us.
  • When to tell our kids about our stories and how important it is to talk about sex and places of sin in our homes first.
“If You Only Knew” book **: Links Mentioned:

Next Episode

After 15 years of marriage, Jenn Jett experienced the pain of divorce. But in that place of brokenness, she felt peace that God would redeem and heal her as she said, “Yes” to him.

Listen as she shares her story about how the Lord pursued her, fought for her and surprised her more than she expected with his redeeming love.

The Lord called me to himself and said, ‘Your hope does not need to be in the success of your marriage, it needs to be in me.’ We are so motivated by measures of success and we can look at our circumstances and either feel great or responsible and shameful.

What we chat about:
  • Jenn’s story of brokeness and pain in marriage and divorce
  • Redefining redemption from God’s perspective
  • Marriage and motherhood can become idols
  • Saying Yes to the things of God can take us on an adventure
  • The importance of community and friends as we process lies we’re believing
  • The power of prayer and learning not to hold back in prayer
  • Healing and restoration is possible even after what feels like a catastrophe
  • The Lord pursues and fights for us through multiple ways
  • Scripture: Isaiah 61 & 62
  • Finding our identity in Christ is so key before we have a hard life situation
31 Days for Prayer for the Dreamer and Doer“** Links Mentioned:

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