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Life Giving Faith in Every Circumstance :: Lisa Appelo [Summer of Mentorship Wk 2]
Don't Mom Alone Podcast
06/27/22
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Childhood should be carefree, right? We hope that our kids make it to adulthood with as few scars as possible, but that isn’t the nature of the world we live in. What happens when our kids encounter grief? What happens when we aren’t able to give them the childhood we wanted them to have?
This week I talk with Lisa Appelo, widow and mom of seven, who found herself in that spot - grieving the life she wanted for herself and her children, and then having to navigate the shift in every relationship that comes through change or grief. What she has found in the last 11+ years has been the presence of God for her and her kids. The rhythm of their regular bible study was a lifeline and she offers us great encouragement of God’s nearness and direct involvement in our lives. Read more of their story in Lisa’s new book Life can be Good Again: Putting Your World Back Together After it All Falls Apart.
We’re taking time this summer (as usual) to be mentored by some experienced moms and benefit from their wisdom. I’m asking them about their “mom brands” and the unique families and assignments God has given them to help us embrace the specific and unique spot God has given each of us.
Discussion Questions:- What stood out to you in the episode?
- What does family bible reading look like in your home? What is one change you could make to your routine to incorporate some kind of bible reading? Think small! Remember that Lisa says it’s a fight to make that space but totally worth it.
- Where can you give your kids the freedom to choose, allowing the Lord to work in them independent of your direct guidance? You can think small here too!
- Where might you need to step back in your child’s life to preserve your relationship with them?
- What relationships have shifted because of loss or change, big or small? Spend time praying with and for one another over these relationships and God’s good plan for them. (This could feel like an insurmountable question for someone in your group - approach it with empathy and care!)
- Website: https://lisaappelo.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisaappeloauthor
- Instagram: @lisaappelo
- Twitter: @AppeloLisa
- Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/LisaAppelo/_created/
- Life Can be Good Again: Putting Your World Back Together After it All Falls Apart by Lisa Appelo
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“Don’t care how, I want it now!” When we watch Veruca Salt sing those words in Willy Wonka we are immediately repulsed. And yet, lots of our time and energy is spent trying to unlock the secrets to a quick change of our circumstance. This week, mom of seven Helen Smallbone, encourages us that following Christ and parenting alike are long games. Marathons, in fact. She has honesty and wisdom to offer as we strive to grow and maintain relationships with our kids that last into adulthood. She also encourages us with some practical ways to foster relationships between our kids, to get them working, and retain our own sanity.
We’re taking time this summer (as usual) to be mentored by some experienced moms and benefit from their wisdom. This year I'm recording new interviews and I’m asking guests about their “mom brands”. They share their values, unique assignments God has given them and what helps their family flourish. The goal is to help you define your "mom brand" and the places God is assigning you.
Discussion Questions:- What stood out to you from the episode?
- Do you take a “mum’s time out” during the day? Why or why not? What would change about your day if you did?
- How do you balance connection with your kids while maintaining the boundaries of a parent-child relationship?
- How do you typically handle sibling conflict? Which of Helen’s tactics could you adapt to use in your own home?
- How do you maintain or reestablish connection with your child after an argument/difficult exchange?
- What’s your favorite way to help kids get their energy out? If another mom shares one that might work at your house, write it down!
- Helen reminded us that motherhood is not for the faint of heart - what aspect of motherhood has got you feeling fainthearted? Spend some time praying for one another about those specific areas.
- Website: https://www.mumlife.org/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/helenjsmallbone/
- Instagram: @MumLifeCommunity
- Podcast: MUM Life Community
- Behind the Lights: The Extraordinary Adventure of a Mum and Her Family by Helen Smallbone
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Focused Living :: Shontell Brewer [SOM Wk 3]
July 4, 2022
•47m
“I don't have time for the things that God has not called me to.”
My guest this week, Shontell Brewer, wisely speaks those words. She is a wife and mom of 5. She’s written a book on parenting and still things haven’t always gone the way she’s planned or wanted. But she has learned where to lean in and wait on the Lord. She’s learned that to be intentional as a mom or wife or teacher she’s got to cut out the “keeping up” with others, whether on social media or the mom down the street. And she’s learned that God hasn’t finished writing the story. Even if she can’t see to the end of all God’s workings in her kid’s lives, knowing His word and taking time to commune with Him have given her a firm foundation to stand on.
We’re taking time this summer (as usual) to be mentored by some experienced moms and benefit from their wisdom. I’m asking them about their “mom brands” and the unique families and assignments God has given them to help us embrace the specific and unique spot God has given each of us.
Discussion Questions:- What stood out to you from the episode?
- Shontell encourages us to get on the same level as the person across from us to grow intentionality in our relationships - be it a spouse or child or friend. What relationship in your life needs this sort of attention? How can you meet that person right where they are?
- How has God gifted you? Do you know?
- Have you thought through what you want for your children, or what the goal of your parenting is? Keeping the tiny humans alive is big work, so no shame at all if you haven’t! If we’re working towards intentionality as moms, thinking through this question can help us cut activities or practices we don’t need and to make space for ones we do.
- How do you measure your success as a parent?
- What situation or circumstance would benefit from you processing with God before processing with a friend? Set aside time to do that this week.
- Website: http://shontellbrewer.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shontell.brewer
- Instagram: @shontellbrewer
- Twitter: @shontellbrewer
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