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Don't Mom Alone Podcast - From Control to Peace : A Mom’s Guide to Peace :: Sarah Stephens [Ep 590]
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From Control to Peace : A Mom’s Guide to Peace :: Sarah Stephens [Ep 590]

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

09/14/26

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As moms, it can be easy to confuse parenting with controlling. We want our children to make wise choices, succeed, and avoid pain. But fear can quickly turn our desire to help into nagging, manipulation, or control. Sarah Stephens joins me to talk about what it looks like to move from controlling our children to mentoring, discipling, guiding, and loving them well.

Sarah shares how God has taught her that our calling is not to control outcomes, but to remain faithful to the process. We talk about seeking wisdom from above, listening for God’s voice, recognizing the difference between conviction and condemnation, and learning to entrust our children and their choices to God.
In this episode, we talk about:

  • Why control is often motivated by fear
  • Learning to focus on the process, not the outcome
  • How to know when to speak up—and when to let something go
  • The only control we’re actually called to have: self-control
  • Seeking God’s wisdom instead of simply collecting more information
  • Learning to recognize God’s voice
  • How comparison can steal a mom’s peace
  • Asking, “Can my child recover from this?”
  • Parenting, guiding, and loving our children even when we disagree
  • Praying for our children and leaving it at the feet of Jesus
  • What it looks like to say, “Your kingdom come, Your will be done”
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Previous Episode

Family relationships can be complicated! So how do we navigate changing family roles, competing expectations, boundaries, and communication while protecting the relationships that matter most?

In this episode, Stacy Reaoch joins me to talk about the challenges that can come with family relationships and what it looks like to choose connection, extend grace, and build bridges even when things feel awkward or difficult. Stacy co-wrote Making Room for Her with her own mother-in-law and shares wisdom from interviewing women across different generations about their experiences.

We talk about:

  • Why family relationships can become challenging when roles and expectations change
  • Navigating competing expectations around time, holidays, and extended family
  • Knowing when to speak up and when to let something go
  • Why unsolicited advice can create tension—and what to do instead
  • How parenting preferences can create conflict between generations
  • Choosing the relationship over the small things
  • What grandparents can do to build trust with their adult children and their spouses
  • Finding small ways to show love and move toward a family member, even when it feels awkward
  • How to support your adult child's marriage without taking sides
  • What to do when you're concerned about your child's marriage
  • Learning to navigate a new relationship with your daughter-in-law or son-in-law
  • Practicing patience, humility, and healthy communication
  • Trusting God with relationships that feel impossible to repair
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Next Episode

Today’s guest is Crystal Paine, founder of MoneySavingMom.com and a longtime advocate for helping families save money, manage their finances, and live with greater intention. Crystal is passionate about helping women find financial peace and make practical changes with whatever they have, wherever they are.

In This Episode

We’re talking about the fear, stress, and emotions that can come with money, and how to move toward greater financial peace. Crystal shares practical habits anyone can start using today, whether you’re paying off debt, trying to save, or simply wanting to feel more confident about where your money is going. We talk about:

  • Why so many women have fear around money
  • How to align your spending with what matters most
  • Navigating money differences in marriage
  • Understanding emotional spending
  • Simple ways to start saving more
  • Why we often use money to feel like we are helping our kids
  • Crystal’s 1-hour money plan
  • Looking at your finances with your 90 year old self in mind
  • Trusting God as your provider, even in lean seasons
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