Fighting for the Family :: Katie Sherrod {Ep 33}
Don't Mom Alone Podcast
07/28/14
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Last year we were family camp newbies. But after a week of refreshment, bonding and spiritual encouragement, we were hooked on the concept. In fact, before we left camp we had signed up come back again this year.
I could literally talk to you for hours about all the reasons Pine Cove is a gift to our family. (In fact, our time riding horses last year, inspired the most popular post I’ve ever written.–>read it here)
With such a high bar, I worried how this year would measure up. Thankfully, it didn’t disappoint. (well, ok, I didn’t ride horses this year. . .which was disappointing at first. . .but I’m saving that story for another post).
The director of Pine Cove Bluffs is Chris Sherrod. He is a gifted teacher and invaluable source of Spiritual mentoring to the husbands who attend camp. His lovely wife, Katie, also a superstar, spends one lunch with all the moms spurring us on with Truth and love.
When I started my podcast, one person I wanted to interview was Katie Sherrod. So, along with our bags of clothes and some flashlights and lots of swimsuits, I grabbed my mic. She and I sat on the floor in my cabin one afternoon and recorded this podcast.
I hope her words remind you of your value as a wife and mom. Most importantly, that you accept God’s rest, relish His grace and seek His wisdom.
What we chat about:
- How she and her husband followed their hearts for families and found a place to serve, even if that included a season of unemployment.
- How their adopted daughter was delivered to their door Christmas Eve & God’s protection of this baby from disease and addiction.
- How they were given a vision of how God accepts us in our broken state, no questions, for the long haul, to rescue us.
- When you fear you won’t be able to love more people, realizing you are standing in a river of God’s love, never-ending, inviting others to join you.
- How Katie grabs time with Jesus anytime and every time. . .not just a “first in the morning” quiet time.
- Her advice to expect hard things to happen, not getting upset when they do.
- Allowing your kids to see Jesus in your reactions, even when you make mistakes, asking for forgiveness.
- How little ones reveal and remind you all your brokenness and need for God.
- Advice she would give her young self, to allow herself rest & accept God’s grace.
- To cry out: “Give me wisdom to rule these people that you’ve put under me.” and He will give it to us.
- How there is no recipe for motherhood–which keeps you on your knees.
- First picture of the gospel is how you love your husband.
- Don’t have to pray for a calling when you have young children.
- Everything you do for your children is your spiritual act of worship.
A mother’s prayer:
“God, give me wisdom in this situation for this child for today in this moment.”
Show Notes:- Pine Cove Christian Camps
- “Let not our longing slay the appetite of our living” – Elisabeth Elliot
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We just kept running into each other everywhere. . .the zoo, the arboretum, Michaels, the grocery store. Finally we decided God wanted us to be friends and we set up our first playdate at the park. That was 6 years ago.
Since we continue to be admittedly bad at the “planned meetings”, we are thankful for the times our paths cross around town and at church.
I’ve written before about Kris Habashy, labeling her my “bump into grace” friend.
She not only brings grace into my life, she shares Truth. She is not afraid to ask me the hard questions and offer me wisdom in the midst of this mothering journey.
Today I get to share Kris with y’all. In fact we chatted so long (typical) I’m going to split our conversation into two separate podcasts.
This episode we focused on: the struggle of allowing our children’s behavior to define our value; the “hard” nature of motherhood; the benefit of making sure everyone’s needs are met; and the steps to training manners.
To me the summary of all those topics is . . .obedience, training, serving are all hard, but once we expect them to be and push through the challenges, we experience the good–the blessings that come with perseverance.
More specifically we chatted about:
- Her homeschool experience & what prepared her most.
- How Kris handles the struggle of tying her value to her kids’ behavior and academic performance.
- Seeing your value as a child of the King, responding to that Truth with love, apprehension & honor doing what God says is the best design for me.
“Life works better when we obey.”
- Having great relationships relies on your relationship with God.
- James 1:19-25–the irony of the perfect “law of liberty”.
- How to handle when children behave badly. . .especially when we respond badly to their behavior.
- The hard choices, actions, & inconvenience required of motherhood.
“You will do something hard every single day of your life. What are you going to do when things get hard? Lower standards, get out of it, complain. . .”
- How making sure everyone’s needs are met helps you handle the hard things better.
- Kris’ AMAZING Friday night ritual for rest (and sanity).
- How she trained her kids in responding to others, interrupting an adult conversation, and appropriate behavior at playdates.
“Really big consequences to small things go a long way.”
Did you expect motherhood to be hard? What has been the hardest part for you?If you like this episode you’ll love
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