The Emotional Lives of Teenagers
Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care
07/29/26
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Are you parenting teens, or will you be in a few years? Don’t miss this conversation with psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour, author of the book, “The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents.“
In this episode, we discuss:
- Our society has become afraid of being unhappy. What are the reasons for this?
- Studies seem to suggest that teens are unhappier now than in the past. Why?
- Three myths about adolescence.
- The adultification of black teens.
- Why do our teens find us so annoying?
- The goal is not always to avoid conflict with our teens; rather, it should be to learn how to have constructive conflict.
- You say that spending time online can be both good and bad for teens.
- What should parents know about porn?
- How carefully should you supervise what your teens are seeing online?
- How can parents keep technology in place? What are some common-sense rules?
- The importance of small pleasures in modulating the mood of our teens.
Resource:
American Psychological Association: Health advisory on social media use in adolescence
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Question: I feel terrible even saying this, but I am counting down the days until school starts. My kids have trauma histories, ADHD, and prenatal exposure, and summer has been rough. The lack of routine seems to make everything harder—sleep, behavior, arguing, screen time, all of it. We started summer with big plans, but now everyone is cranky, including me. How do we make it through the rest of summer without completely falling apart?
Resources:
- Embracing Summer: Supporting Children Through Seasonal Transitions
- Empowered to Connect: Summer Survival Resources
- Surviving Summer with Kids Impacted by Trauma
- 5 Tips for Surviving Summer with Kids Impacted by Trauma
- Keeping Your Older Grandkids Busy During the Summer
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
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- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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Question: Our adopted son is almost 4 months old and perfectly healthy. He eats well, sleeps well, and seems to be hitting his milestones just fine. We know that he was exposed to cocaine during pregnancy, but he was born only three weeks early, which is still full-term. He had a healthy birth weight, he was not suffering from withdrawal in the hospital, and he has checked out as perfectly healthy at all of his pediatrician visits so far. My question is, does the lack of negative effects of cocaine in these early months of his life give us any indication of whether or not he will have learning difficulties or development issues due to the cocaine when he reaches school age? I am curious whether there is any research showing that a lack of symptoms at a young age following prenatal exposure indicates fewer symptoms at an older age.
Resources:
- FASD United
- Pregnancy and Breastfeeding Exposures
- Raising a Child with Prenatal Substance Exposure
- Prenatal Substance Exposure Training for Foster, Adoptive, and Kinship Parents
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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