Interview with Sarah Sentilles, author of "Stranger Care"
Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care
05/28/21
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In this episode we interview Sarah Sentilles, author of a newly released book by Random House titled Stranger Care. "Stranger Care" is a beautifully written book that captures the promise and often the failure of foster care. And it is a beautiful portrait of love with no promise of a future.
In this episode, we cover:
Beautifully written book that captures the promise and often the failure of foster care. And a beautiful portrait of love with no promise of a future.
· How did you come to the decision to become foster parents? And did you come to that decision or were you really trying to become an adoptive parent?
· Discussion of “ethically cleaner”.
· I appreciated how you showed Evelyn, the birth mom, to be human and to love her child. You did a good job of showing the nuances, which are hard to do, especially when you are the one losing the child. I very much enjoyed seeing how that relationship grew. What helped change it?
· Rooting for and against birth mom
· Love and yet not belonging to you
· The power of the state to remove kids should not be used without great care.
· What qualifies as good parenting and is “good enough” enough. Ex. of the car seat.
· Keeping siblings together.
· It is discouraging that organizations, such as Creating a Family exist to support people like you when you were first considering your options. And if we didn’t reach someone like you who is educated and I would assume someone who researches and gathers info then how in the world do we reach people. Education research focused woman are our demographic!
· How long has it been and do you know what has happened to Coco?
· How have you and your husband been changed by this experience?
· Is this book in part an attempt to reach out to Coco. Did you write it with an ear to her reading it later in life and you talking to her. Do you hope she will hear about it and read it?
· Did you decide to give up on fostering? What about adopting?
This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
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Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
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Have you ever considered adopting after you had children by birth? Or thought about trying to get pregnant after you adopted? Is it a good idea to combine kids by birth and adoption. In this episode, we talk with Rebecca Ricardo, an LCSW who has worked in the field of adoption since 1991. She currently serves as the Executive Director for a licensed, child-placing agency that provides both placement and support services. She is an adoptee and a birth mom. The son she placed for adoption was raised as the only adopted child between two children born to his adoptive parents.
In this episode, we cover:
• What are the typical reasons why families have both adopted and non-adopted kids?
• What does the research show on how children and families adjust when there are children by both adoption and infertility?
• Do parents have a tendency to favor their biological children? Kin Selection Theory based on evolutionary psychology.
• Does it matter if the adopted child is adopted after the family has had bio kids, or if the adopted child comes first (most often because the parents were infertile) and they went back into treatment after they adopted to try for a biological child? What different factors come into play?
• Favoritism by grandparents or extended family. How to handle?
• The tendency of parents of families that combine biological and adopted kids to downplay genetics, birth stories, etc.
• How to handle conflicts with children or extended family members when children require a different type of parenting because one child has experienced trauma?
• How to handle conflicts when one child requires more of the parent’s time than another child?
• Tips for parents who are combining kids by birth and adoption. How can social workers help families that are considering this?
This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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How does the endocrine system impacts fertility, what can go wrong, and what can be done about it. We talk today with Dr. Mark Trolice, the Director of Fertility CARE: The IVF Center in Orlando and Professor of Obstetrics & Gynecology at the University of Central Florida College of Medicine. He is double Board-certified in Reproductive Endocrinology & Infertility and OB/GYN.
In this episode, we include:
· What is the function of the endocrine system in human health?
· How does the thyroid gland function within the endocrine system?
· How is female fertility impacted by the endocrine system?
· How is male fertility impacted by the endocrine system?
· What is hypothyroidism?
· What is hyperthyroidism?
· How are dysfunctions in the endocrine system diagnosed?
· How are dysfunctions in the endocrine system treated?
· What dietary and lifestyle choices impact the health of the endocrine system and thyroid gland?
· What are some common endocrine disrupting chemicals in our environment?
· How are environmental endocrine disruptors impacting fertility?
This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. Creating a Family brings you the following expert-based content:
· Weekly podcasts
· Weekly articles/blog posts
· Resource pages on all aspects of family building
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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