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Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care
12/10/23
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Additional Resources:
- Virtual Twins Through Adoption: An Adoptee's Perspective
- Adopting More Than One Child
- Adopting Out of Birth Order and Artificial Twinning
This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
Please leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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Adopting From Foster Care
December 6, 2023
•50m
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Have you ever considered adopting a child from foster care? Check out our interview with Erica Jourdan, the Founder of Adoption Options Consulting, where she provides support to families looking to adopt older children from foster care. She is also a Licensed Clinical Social Worker Associate (LCSWA) at Flourish Counseling and Wellness. And Angelica Jones, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and the Intensive Service Foster Care Recruiter and Trainer at Vista Del Mar Child and Family Services in Los Angeles. She is a current foster parent and has experience working with prospective and adoptive parents in the foster care program.
In this episode, we cover:
- What are the different ways to adopt from foster care? (adopting children whose parental rights have already been terminated or adopting a child who you have been fostering when their parental rights are terminated)
- What types of kids are available for adoption from foster care? Age, gender, race, sibling group?
- Is adopting a very young child or baby from foster care possible?
- What are the special needs that these children might have? Trauma, prenatal exposure, ADHD, etc.
- Can you adopt a child from foster care across state lines?
- What should prospective parents think about when considering different ages of children to adopt?
- What should prospective parents think about when considering a sibling group for adoption?
- How to find children currently available for adoption? AdoptUSKids, State Heart Galleries, Wendy’s Wonderful Kids
- What are the basic differences between adopting and fostering in foster care?
- Who can adopt from foster care?
- Can singles men and women adopt from foster care?
- Can LGBTQ+ parents adopt?
- What are the education requirements? Do you have to have graduated from high school, or college?
- Can you adopt if you have a criminal background?
- Do you have to own your own home?
- Do you have to make a certain amount of money in order to adopt from foster care?
- How much does it cost to adopt from foster care?
- Is an adoption subsidy usually available?
- Medicaid is usually available.
- What happens if you think the child might have problems in the future due to things, such as prenatal exposure, but is not currently showing any issues due to age? (if you have questions, contact Families Rising (Formerly known as NACAC, North American Council on. Adoptable Children))
- How does the Adoption Tax Credit apply to adoptions from foster care?
- What is the process for someone wanting to adopt from foster care?
- Home study requirements?
- How much education or training is required?
- Do you have to use the state agency or can you use a private agency? What is the difference between the two? Does it depend on what state you live in?
- What are some questions to ask when choosing an agency?
- How to transition a child into your home for adoption (if you aren't the foster parent) in the most child-centric way?
- Post-adoption contact or openness with birth parents, siblings, or birth grandparents.
This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resour
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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Connecting with Teens
December 13, 2023
•54m
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Do you dread the teen years? Or, if you're in the midst of parenting teens, do you struggle to find ways to connect? This week, we interview Dr. Melody Aguayo, a parenting coach specializing in working with at-risk children and their families and the founder of Real Child Consulting, LLC. She is the mom of two adopted kids.
In this episode, we cover:
- Parents wonder why their easy and natural connection with their kids changed, and they now feel on the outs and have to work harder. What is the developmental stage that is happening between the ages of about 13 and 18 or 19?
- Teens act like they don’t need us when I believe they need us even more to be present, but in a distinctly different way. I think that our emotions as a parent can sometimes interfere with connecting.
- Change our expectation of what “connection” means with teens.
- Parents report feeling powerless in parenting when their kids reach their teen years. What is the essence of our power as parents?
- Our goals for our teens are to become responsible and independent. How can we parent in such a way to foster these goals?
- Let’s address some common issues we face when parenting teens:
- Arguing. How do you turn an argument into a conversation?
- Spending too much time on technology
- Running with the wrong crowd
- Tips for connecting and building trust and appreciation with your teen!
This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
Please leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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