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Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care
07/26/25
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Question: I have a question that may be well suited for a weekend wisdom episode. I'm aware of the reasons that a domestic infant adoption may fail, but I've also read about foster children having failed adoption(s) and then aging out of the system. What are some of the main reasons that a foster child experiences a failed adoption? How does that look different than (or the same as) a failed domestic infant adoption?
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- Failed Adoption Matches:
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July 23, 2025
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What should you look for when you are considering therapy for your child or your family? How do you find the right fit for your child's needs? We talk today with Kelly Raudenbush, Executive Director of The Sparrow Fund, a non-profit that provides therapeutic services for foster and adoptive children and their grown-ups. She is a child and family therapist with an MA degree in counseling and a certificate in clinical infant and early childhood mental health. She's also an adoptive mom.
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- What questions can parents or caregivers ask to determine if the therapist is a good fit for the child and family?
- Are there additional or specific considerations for therapy that should be addressed if our child has experienced sexual abuse?
- What is home-based therapy and what are the advantages to this type of therapy for adoptive, foster, or relative caregiving families?
- Is therapy via tele-health or via teleconferencing as effective as in-person for our families?
Additional Resources:
- https://sparrow-fund.org/
- Therapy Resources for Adoptive, Foster, and Kinship Families
- Adoptee and Foster Alumni Voices
- Therapists: Parents Should Be With Their Kids for Adoptive or Foster Therapy Sessions
- A Guide to Selecting An Adoption Or Foster Therapist
- Family Centered Treatment
Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
- Weekly podcasts
- Weekly articles/blog posts
- Resource pages on all aspects of family building
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