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Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care

09/24/23

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Q: I just recently found out my 14-year-old has stolen makeup more than once from different stores. I caught her this past weekend, and she said she did it once, but I went through her bedroom and found makeup stashed in a pillow, and I know I didn’t buy it. She gets straight A's in school, and I thought she was a trustworthy person. I just don’t know what to do.
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This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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Raising an Anti-Racist Child

September 20, 2023

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Do you want to be part of the solution to the inequity that exists in our country? If so, one of the best things you can do is raise your child to be anti-racist. Join our conversation with Tiffany Jewell, the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller, This Book is Anti-Racist and The Anti-Racist Kid.
In this episode, we cover:

  • At what age do kids notice race? And does this age differ in the US depending on the child's skin color?
  • Why not teach our kids to be colorblind?
  • How do the books we read, the movies we watch, the friends we make, the doctors we visit, and the conversations we have at home all shape our children’s views of race?
  • What’s the difference between not being racist and being anti-racist?
  • Is there a difference between how a White parent and a Black parent should approach raising an anti-racist child?
  • Practical Tips for Parents

Resources:

  • The Anti-Racist Kid by Tiffany Jewell
  • 4 Tips to Raising an Anti-Racist Kid by Creating a Family
  • Resources for finding great children’s books:
    • Diverse Book Finder is a fantastic website that allows you to search for children’s books based on specific categories (e.g., biographies, oppression/resistance; crossing divides, etc.), race/culture (e.g., African American, brown-skinned but race unidentified, Latinx, Asian, Middle Eastern, Bi/Multiracial, etc.), country, religion, etc.
    • The Brown Bookshelf highlights Black voices writing for young readers.
    • The Conscious Kid is an education, research, and policy organization that promotes children’s books centered on underrepresented and oppressed groups. They have a book of the month subscription service and a terrific list of books by Black authors that center, reflect, and affirm Black children of all ages. You can also follow them on Instagram to learn about these books.
    • Jane Addams Peace Association, Children's Book Awards
  • EmbraceRace.org – Resource site formed by black and multi-racial parents with tools for parenting kids of color.
  • One Talk at a Time – Providing support for Latinx American, Asian American, African American, and Black youth and their families to have conversations about race and ethnicity. In recognition that the issues may differ depending on the ethnicity, they have a separate section for Black, Asian, and Latinx parents.
  • Creating a Family’s Transracial Adoption resource page – a variety of resources specific to families created through transracial adoption. We have an extensive collection of blog posts, news articles, expert Q & A’s, and radio shows/podcasts specific to multi-racial families formed through adoption.
  • Between the World and Me – by Ta-Nehisi Coates. Written as a letter to his teenage son about being Black in the United States.
  • The Antiracist Baby by Ibram X. Kendi.
  • Raising Antiracist Children: A Practical Parenting Guide

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Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
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What do transracial adoptees think about being adopted by parents of a different race? Join us for a panel of transracial adoptees talking about all things adoption.

In this episode, we cover:

  • Transracial adoption includes white parents of black, biracial, Asian, and Latinx children, as well as adoptive parents of color adopting white children.
  • Tell us your adoption story.
  • How did your parents treat adoption? How did and does that make you feel about being adopted?
  • When did you realize that you were a different race from your parents?
  • How did your parents treat race, specifically your race, when you were young?
  • What is wrong with taking a color-blind approach to transracial adoption?
  • Was it a struggle for you to identify as an adult of your race?
  • What did your parent do to aid your racial identity formation?
  • Transracially adopted children need tools to maneuver through life as a member of their racial group. When they are young, they are protected from this reality, but this changes as they enter adolescence. What tools did your parents use and what tools did you need?
  • How can transracially adopted people or their parents find mentors and role models of color?
  • Were you ever embarrassed by being of a different race than your parents?
  • Importance of finding a community of other adopted people.
  • What is the most important thing, if any, your parent did to ensure/instill racial identity and pride as Caucasian parents who adopt a Black or Asian or Latina child?
  • Tips for parents either considering transracial adoption or already in the midst of parenting transracially adopted kids.

This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

Please leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Support the show

Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.
Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:

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